Tempory caregiver advice

[Flame wolf]

Hi everyone, so I'm going to visit a freind of mine who I've known for a while. I'm staying with him for 2 week and because he's a very kink friendly person who's done a little research into ddlg I asked him if he would would be my cg while I'm under his roof. I'm pretty excited 1 because I don't travel much, and 2 because I've never actually had a caregiver.

 

Anyhow I wanted to ask if anyone had any advice for me or him. I also just wanted to share.

[MentorDaddy]

I'm happy f or you that you will have your first experience witha caregiver, a friend you have known for a while 😸 As with everything, communication is king 😊

[Barney048]

Okay, soo. Temporary dynamics aren't for everyone. You should make clear mental boundaries about what this is going to be. Think  about what will happen after the 2 weeks are up, and whethere you're preppared for that. I realize you are eager to explore a Daddy/little dynamic as you've never had one, and this seems like an ideal opportunity since that guy is a longterm friend who you trust and feel safe with. However tread lightly. 

I'm not saying that you not do it. Just that you think this through beforehand and have a serious talk about this with that friend of yours. I understand you are eager and excited about the prospect of it, but don't let that cloud your judgement. 

 

Another thing is the fact that he is not an experianced Daddy nor someone active in the lifestyle from what I gather. You said he did some research and is kink friendly, however that doesen't make one a good caregiver. If you do decide to go through with this I advise you not  try to fly before you can crawl. He will try to offer you everything you want, while most likely ignoring whether he should. Take things slow and don't try to squeeze in all your pent up desires into these 2 weeks. 

[Kittyara207]

      Yeah, maybe setting up some clear rules.  There are plenty of sites that have things to go over first with both parties.  Make sure you are both on the same page.  

     And leave time at the end of the evening to talk about how things went and if you have any issues with what went on.  Kind of 'aftercare' but for the full day.  I hope it all goes well for the both of you.