How Often Do You Communicate?

[BaldRunnerGuy]

So I 'met' (online) a wonderful little a few weeks ago and we've been chatting. It's progressing, albeit slowly. I fully know and understand that this goes slowly. I'm ok with that. I'm patient. This sort of relationship takes a long time to grow.

However, I'm curious how often y'all chat with each other? It seems in this specific relationship that we're on completely opposite schedules. I'm a morning person and work an early shift. She's a night owl and works a late shift. We send messages back and forth but have yet to line up a voice call. Between work and sleep, we can never work it out.

I'm starting to get a little down thinking it's never going to line up.

[beanbean]

Every relationship is different and you guys seem have really different schedules,but if it bother you talk to your little and try to work something out

[HugsR4bears]

hmm I don't have experience with an online relationship with opposite schedules but my partner used to work night shift so I can relate, although it's a bit easier when you live together.

I'd say try letting her know how you feel and seeing if you can make breakfast time function as quality time/ date mornings? 😅 

I think both parties will need to make some sort of sacrifice, either waking up earlier or staying up a bit later, it takes a lot of work for any relationship, more so when you're on opposite schedules, best of luck to you! 

[Guest UnicornPuff]

My Daddy is in the UK and I live in the States and have a six-hour time difference, but we make it work. I don't mean to be discouraging but I think it depends on patience and how much both people want to make it work. 

[MissNMTX]

Through the years, I've talked to people all over. Overseas and such. If you really are dedicated you can make it work. It may require waking up a bit earlier or sleeping a bit later, but once you find the rhythm it's much easier.

Bonus, we s types love waking up to "good morning" messages!