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Guest vallerina
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im not sure if it is still from being new to accepting little space or getting in my own head but what are some ways to stay in little space? :(( i always get there but if i think too much i get insecure and end up big again :(( i also live with family so its hard to fully get into littlespace including things like pacifiers, onesies, and more. anyone have any good ideas for just staying in littlespace :(

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Pastel colors. Holding Daddies hand. Stuff animal, pacifier. Depending upon what age you shoot for. Sippy cups 3-4 if younger bottles. Daddy or mommy can bathe you if you want. have your food cut for you. Since you can't use a knife especially in little space. Have food ordered for you. Set bed time. Set story time. Say your time for bed is 9pm. I go to bed early these days because of my medicine. You want your story time it would be 8:30. Bath time would be 8:00. Something like that. This lets you be in the bed with me to get hugs. Believe me by 10pm I am going to sleep for sure. Perhaps an hour of nap time. like 1pm after lunch. Plenty of pink, Lavendar, Purple, Yellow colors. PINK for sure. Goodnight diaper.  Play dates at the park, going to mall, zoo, amusement parks. A bib on. A shirt that says Daddy's little girl I have seen. If this don't work perhaps others have ideas.

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i think something like this is heavily dependent on little you and your age rage but what i’ve found helps me is big me shows up for little me. i live alone but my bedroom is my little haven and i make sure to keep little items near me as well as little activities that i enjoy. i have a water bottle with a sippy spout and make sure to always put juice or water or chocolate milk in it, i have clothing that’s casually little (like a matching pajama set that has ruffles or bow on it) and i have my laptop set up with either little music or little cartoons . basically, if i can’t go full out little but i need to escape the big world - i make my big world accommodate little me by showing up for her and making sure i feel safe and have everything i could need already taken care of. always here to answer more questions if needed :) 

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For me staying in littlespace centres a lot around my Daddy and tactile/olfactory sensory inputs from Him. Like the scent of His cologne combined with Him stroking my nose and snuggling a stuffie into my lap. It might be Him reading me a kids book as He pulls me tightly against His chest. Or it could be Him placing a bottle or pacifier in my mouth the rocking me gently. My Daddy is a large part of what makes my luttlespace such a place if vulnerability, it's the trust, safety and unconditional love that he radiates. 💕💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰

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I think allowing yourself to be little is important. And to take that permission from yourself seriously.

  • Is it possible to reserve time when you cannot be disturbed?
  • Can you close off a room to make sure no one enters?

It can be as short as a few minutes and it can take up as little space as a bathroom. Then maybe it doesn't  matter that much what you do, as long as you know and feel: I'm allowed be a little here and now! Can you feel that permission? 💞

Edited by LovingDaddySadistic

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