How to make other little friends?

[NoNore]

I have a hard time making friends. It always seems like when I go to talk someone I never hear back or they just seem uninterested. Does anyone have any tips on making friends with other littles?

[Princess-P]

You can chat with me, I love meeting new people.

 

As for how to make friends just be yourself. Its no different then making friends in person. Some people you will click with and some you won't.

 

For me personally when another little messages me but types in "baby talk" it turns me off. I'm always polite and reply but a friendship doesn't usually form. I just don't want to read gibberish lol.

 

And try getting to know people outside of little space. Were littles but we're adults as well.

[fairygurl91787]

Hello,

 

I am new here, but I totally know what you mean. I have bad anxiety so it is hard for me to start a conversation. I have been trying to step out and do that more often. I find that one someone is polite and leaves an in to the conversation that it makes it a lot easier. I have yet to make any little friends, but I would really love to.

[LittleKitten93]

I had trouble back on my old account because I had anxiety too. I made a few friends though but many did seem uninterested and didnt really want to make any effort to having an actual conversation. You can talk to me though I am a bit shy at first but once I get comfortable I make a really good friend!

[Guest DaddysLolita]

You can message me anytime  

 

I find the easiest way to make any friend is to find something you have in common. Many discussions related to what you have in common will branch off into other things and so on. I'm also a fan of questions, I rarely know what to ask so open ended questions are my favorite thing, not just questions I can say yes or no to. 

 

<3

[Cherry41]

It is hard for me to make other lg friends too. Online, I post that I am looking for other littles to talk to..mention my age...etc...then I'm too shy to reach out when people friend me. Offline...I have no clue how to even tell if someone is into DDlg..and I'm shy offline too.

[Guest Sweetlittle25]

Well I'm super friendly and love to talk about anything so you're all welcome to send me messages through kik or even on here. I'll be happy to chat!

[tinykitty]

social anxiety sort of ruins it for me

i've no in person friends

no real deep friendships online that could one day turn into an in person meetup

i'm terrible about knowing what to say anyway

any penpal attempts have failed because of my age the others my age expect me to be like them and i'm in fact more like their children with my interests which of course weirds them out and that's the end of that penpal attempt, and I get tired of being told to grow up, how about they grow down a bit and go buy some crayolas yeah?

it's nearly anxiety pill time this is another post i've tried to reply to a bunch of times and chickened out

i wasn't taught how t make friends as a kid, wasn't allowed to even have friends,

so i don't know what the trick is that everyone seems to "just know" that I fail to know.

[Guest clownyprincette]

social anxiety sort of ruins it for me

i've no in person friends

no real deep friendships online that could one day turn into an in person meetup

i'm terrible about knowing what to say anyway

any penpal attempts have failed because of my age the others my age expect me to be like them and i'm in fact more like their children with my interests which of course weirds them out and that's the end of that penpal attempt, and I get tired of being told to grow up, how about they grow down a bit and go buy some crayolas yeah?

it's nearly anxiety pill time this is another post i've tried to reply to a bunch of times and chickened out

i wasn't taught how t make friends as a kid, wasn't allowed to even have friends,

so i don't know what the trick is that everyone seems to "just know" that I fail to know.

I have a hard time making in person friend too; although I have at least a handful of them, I feel as though we don't share many, of any, common interests. I tend to get pretty anxious over friendships, even though others consider me very friendly. So I think I understand some of what you mean & where you're coming from, tinykitty, & if you ever wanna vent to someone about difficulties making friends, or just talk, I'm here to talk to.

[Guest Jennyanydots]

I <3 Harley tooooooo 

 

I think it is fairly common for littles to be shy and anxious, that's why we need a Daddy (forgive me for using that term instead of something more universal, I'll flub again and again. . .Cargivers, we need CGs) to help us come out of that shell. We build up walls to protect ourselves, but we end up being burried under them. You won't make any friends unless you BOTH reach out and try to befriend one another. Maybe the problem is that deep down we don't want to have to make friends because we know it probably just means more disappointment and heartache. . .then again, isn't heartache usually worth it? You get a lot of good highs even when it ends in heartache. Reach out to others, even if they let you down. It isn't because there's something wrong with you; it's because they are fighting their own demons. Remember they are as vulnerable and fragile as you are.