SparklyOne Posted February 23, 2023 Report Posted February 23, 2023 Hello my fellow littles / middles! It did take me longer to accept my little side but I'm very happy I did. Being over 30 and a little brings its own fun and challenges. I am grateful there is a club where we can connect and make friends. I currently reside in the SF Bay Area. If there are others in this same region I would love to make friends. I love watching shows / movies. I like going to get coffees. Anything with mocha is usually my favorite. I prefer hot over cold. For my little side I really like cute things, dressing up, watching shows, hanging out with friends and laughing, playing games and finding joy.
lil Mo Posted February 23, 2023 Report Posted February 23, 2023 Hello Sparkly, so cool that you started writing here.. I thought it's nice to have a club like this but noone posted anything.. I also just (and with that late) accepted my little side and am still trying to figure things out. I don't know yet what my Little likes.. so far I got myself a stuffie and LOVE it and having it around me as much as possible. I always liked watching cartoons and Animes (Disney absolutely rocks!!😅) and drawing.. but at times I also put a lot of pressure on myself and think everything has to be perfect.. *sigh* But I'm looking forward to accepting my little side more and more and like to talk to others expericencing similar things.. I'm from Germany, so actually quite far away.. but we can still talk..? 🥺☺️ 2
SparklyOne Posted February 23, 2023 Author Report Posted February 23, 2023 We can absolutely still talk. The great part of this group is that were able to share things that are similar for us and celebrate and support each other.
lil Mo Posted February 24, 2023 Report Posted February 24, 2023 That sounds good.. I'm still figuring this all out and don't feel I can talk to people in my 'real' life.. How is your Little part of your life?
SparklyOne Posted February 26, 2023 Author Report Posted February 26, 2023 I definitely agree with you about not talking to people in real life about being a little. I had a very difficult conversation regarding that with someone I thought was a friend resulting in a serious panic attack. From this point forward I will talk here but outside of here,no. People will judge and be mean 1
lil Mo Posted February 26, 2023 Report Posted February 26, 2023 So sorry to hear that you had such a hard time.. people can really be total meanies and often don't get how much their words can hurt. I have a best friend with whom I usually talk about everything. And maybe she might accept that part of me.. but I'm still so new to this all and don't feel ready to talk about and maybe even defend this side of me.. So I'm really glad to have found this forum!!!! ☺️ Here I can be me and interact with other and learn more..
SparklyOne Posted February 26, 2023 Author Report Posted February 26, 2023 Absolutely! If anything that experience taught me I won't tell anyone anything unless I know for sure they are safe and about this already and are accepting.
lil Mo Posted February 27, 2023 Report Posted February 27, 2023 I understand.. But it also feels weird to keep a part of oneself always a secret.. Why is society so judgemental?? 🥺🥺 1
Guest UnicornPuff Posted April 10, 2023 Report Posted April 10, 2023 I'm 35 and the only people I talk to about being Little are online. My best friends live in a different country because I met them through here. They are amazing 🤩
txflatlander2021 Posted April 17, 2023 Report Posted April 17, 2023 Hello! And, I know the feeling. I moved to the PNW to hopefully run into more accepting people. And to escape judgement of people I know and family as I start to live my true self. But it is still embarrassing to admit even to myself sometimes. Good luck to you!
Hada de Nieve Posted April 28, 2023 Report Posted April 28, 2023 It's really difficult to talk openly about this topic, people can be very judgemental, but I think is also fear without understanding. I have had a long process to acept my littleness, specially because as I child I had to mature quick. But having small things that make you feel little is vital, it's a reconciliation with our inner children. I'm Diana, and I'm glad to join the club. Hello to all of you 😊😊😊 1 1
AmandaAlwaysNaughty Posted May 30, 2023 Report Posted May 30, 2023 Yes I struggled with this for along time before accepting that is what I truly need. I’m a 51 year old sexual middle and the search to find my daddy or mummy or both is proving to be a hard one, but I know this is what I truly need to be happy so however long it takes I’ll keep in going. Hi to all the group. Amanda x 2
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