what brings you out of LS?

[LilDemonBaby]

I was wondering, what brings you out of Littlespace? i noticed that 'adult conversations', arguments, and certain situations can bring me out of LS really quickly and it can be difficult to get back in afterwords. does that happen to you and how do you get back in? i find that if im happy and im in LS and daddy talks about unpleasant things or things that i think a little wouldnt necessarily be involved in i get defensive and hide my Little to protect that part of me. keep in mind hes new to it all so...should i have an in depth conversation about that with him and if so, what if its too much? like, what if im being too finicky and asking for too much?

[Andriel_Isilien]

I think it's fair to want to keep interruptions to a minimum for your time in littlespace just the same as other adults want their own time to unwind without distractions. Having conversations about your feelings or needs shouldn't be considered "too much". It's part of communicating with those around you because people are not mind readers. I hope this can work out for you both. It's OK being new with this. I'm sure that your daddy would appreciate more awareness about how you feel as this probably was unintentional. See how he responds to the topic.

Other adults can pull me out of LS and similar situations like you described. When I struggle to get back in that's because of mental stress I'm feeling that needs to be addressed. Usually, I over think and stress myself out. 

[Guest]

Definitely have a talk with him. Learning and becoming aware of these situations is part of the process. Communication is key. Even tho it might be hard sometimes to do so. 

 

I pretty much stay in LS once I'm there. Sometimes this can be for days or just an hour or so. It really depends on a few things for me. Mentality at the time, emotions, mood.. It doesn't really matter if I'm happy or sad. My little comes out whenever. But it's different for everyone. When my Daddy talks about things that are grown-up stuff or really sad stuff, I either just tell him to please not to or just give him a face. He's come to know it. Lol Don't get me wrong... My Daddy is the boss... But he's human and as such he can't read my mind. I hope this helps a little for you.

[Guest Crybunbun]

In most cases, for me, its my own overthinking. I am in LS and really enjoy it and then suddenly a bad thought comes along that brings me outta it. Like some adulting-stuff i have to do / make. I get stressed very easily - so yeah.
But my Dada brings me back into LS with soft talk and saying - he understands me; is there for me

[Guest bad_apple]

For me it can be conversations that's relating to work or adult topics that are either on the heavier side or need some serious thinking.

Also being put on charge or feeling as if in charge/having to take charge. That's a really little mood killer. 

[Yoda2022]

When my daddy will make reference’s like when little Cassie goes back to big space I need her to do such and such or somtimes he will mention bills here and there completely takes me out of little space:(((((

[LilDemonBaby]

thank you for the advice, i did tell him but, unfortunately he would get defensive and then ask me what hes supposed to do. the relationship ended up not working out so...oh well. if i have to tell him what to do and hes not interested in learning about the dynamic then it wont work out. thanks again!

[rosi]

When I am reminded of important schedules and overwhelmed with work/at work...littles don't go to doctors appointments by themselves or have to talk about insurance. 

[Guest BabyBug]

Adult conversations have always done it for me and yea, I can have some trouble getting back to my headspace too. I've learned pretty recently that using my first name snaps me out pretty quickly as well.  Sometimes I want to be in my littlespace and I have trouble communicating that I need it. I should probably talk to my daddy about it, maybe he can help me come up with a way to say it if I can't use my words.

[LilDemonBaby]

adult conversations, ugh😒