Is It Weird To.

[James Connolly]

 

 

Edited June 7, 2024 by James Connolly

[Sloth Fairy]

Personally I would prefer if someone discreetly told me if there was something wrong like that. I would rather know then go the whole day with my makeup messed up or whatever. 

[Kittykat83]

Yup definitely discretion to save further embarrassment. Also if you all are just going back into the work place I guess old levels of comfort, camaraderie and working with each other again need to be established. It will take a short while for everyone to get back into their groove and get familiar with everyone's personalities. 

 

So keep being honest as it will be appreciated but (it was never stated in your original post if used or not) discretion is important when needed 😁

 

Have fun being back in the work place!

[Mr. Ducky]

If I found something in my teeth after a conversation with someone I would be wondering if they say it and decided not to say anything. I agree with saying something, but being discrete. Sometimes you don't even need to say anything with words. You can offer someone a breath mint or a napkin, or motion with your hand in such a way as to say "wipe this part of your mouth"....

[beanbean]

yeah as long as you dont sout it or draw attention too it you should be fine . i wear my shirt inside out all the time and my coworkers are like dude switch your shirt lol, but no its not wierd

[PocketSand]

Well I have no comment on the part about makeup. But as for food in their teeth I may mention it if it's really noticeable. However in my workplace some people still wear masks when they walk around so it's not too big of a deal 

[Guest Cupcake2323]

Yeah, it actually is more annoying when you realize you have food in your teeth or fall out under your eye from the mascara and nobody says anything. I think it’s polite to say hey you have xyz going on. 
 

think about how long they would have gone if you hadn’t said anything. Some people might just be embarrassed by it? I’m usually more grateful for that help. It’s all about how you say things. 

[Guest UnicornPuff]

I think they way someone is told makes a world of difference. I certainly would want to know, but tell me discreetly. Just blurting it out can cause a lot of embarrassment.

 

I once had a neighbor who was sitting on the front porch, hungover, with her falsie on her cheek. There were people sitting who’d been with her for hours who never bothered to say anything. I didn’t even like the woman but I thought it was the right thing to tell her.

[Taggy]

Same her. If someone in a group would tell me I had something between my teeth I would feel uncomfortable. But if someone gives me a small poke and quietly tells me it, I would appreciate it so much.

[Shybutcreative]

Whipping to help someone out is always better than waking fin of them.  Friends can be born from helping others.  

[BabyPuff]

On 1/15/2023 at 10:28 AM, James Connolly said:

Is it weird to tell people they have something in their teeth or their mascara is not on their eyelashes but their face? It feels like I'm the only person saying, "oh your lipstick is on your teeth."

I know this might sound trivial but since returning to the workplace I reflect more on conversation I have had. Worried that I've said something wrong.

I don't think I'm being rude and would prefer if people pointed these things out to me if I wore make-up haha or more likely have food on my face.

Opinions are welcomed.

 

I do this and always think I am the only one saying anything too. Then I worry about accidentally offending someone… I would rather know also. I do think feminine things might be more easily taken when gently presented by another female ( i.e. mascara). 

[Kittyara207]

Only respectful way to do this is if its easily fixed like in a few moments go ahead.  However if its something they cannot change or fix quickly i don't share it.  Like zippers, lipstick, or underwear etc.  Skirt tucked into panties.  Hair stick straight up however, i made the oops cause it was the person's hair style...won't make that mistake again

[bigkidagain]

Yes it true discretion is best. But I would be wondering why no one else said anything. And that person who told me did me a favor. I would not like to lose a client if they this I'm poorly dressed. But co-workers/friends should tell out of respect even if you have issues with a person. 

[Guest ErickWcurls]

I've told friend things like this , also if they had like plaque build up or all of a sudden notice like really bad breath like they have gum disease.  They have always appreciated this

[MissNMTX]

No, it's not rude. It's considerate and kind. Of course, as long as it's done privately and not in a way that draws attention to the "issue".

[Guest ErickWcurls]

On 1/15/2023 at 8:28 AM, James Connolly said:

Is it weird to tell people they have something in their teeth or their mascara is not on their eyelashes but their face? It feels like I'm the only person saying, "oh your lipstick is on your teeth."

I know this might sound trivial but since returning to the workplace I reflect more on conversation I have had. Worried that I've said something wrong.

I don't think I'm being rude and would prefer if people pointed these things out to me if I wore make-up haha or more likely have food on my face.

Opinions are welcomed.

 

Ive found most people appreciate being told something is out of sorts.   Tell them when they are alone and with great gentleness