Amazing daddy

[Lilybunbun]

Firstly, I just want to say I somehow am now in a relationship with the best daddy ever! He is so kind, supportive and we are so similar and get on so well together. Its been only a month and feels like years.

 

I just worry im not good enough for him at all 😕

im quite boring quiet and have bad habits etc

[beanbean]

7 hours ago, gigisweetheart said:

I feel like if he found you boring or didn’t like your habits, he wouldn’t be sticking around. But for arguments sake, let’s pretend he did think you were boring. The onus would be entirely on him to tell you how he feels. There is no point in assuming or guessing things that may or may not be true. You’ll just drive yourself crazy and feel bad about yourself. 

Also, remember that even in the best relationships, you will sometimes annoy each other or disappoint each other. It’s perfectly normal. But that’s when you sit down together and chat about any issues you may have and figure out some positive solutions or compromises. 

Overall, I feel like you could work on viewing yourself in a kinder light. Convincing yourself you’re boring for one person may lead you to think you’re boring to everyone… and that isn’t true. 😊

yes you need view  your self  in postive view , and also talk to him about these things you don't like about yourself there may be things he likes or things you can work on.  your daddy can help you with stuff thats too hard for you work on  alone. and if somethings can not be changed well no one is perfect. and if any expects you to be perfect thats not reasonable at all ,  lot of people think there boring when there not really , but if you guy do stuff together one time do stuff you like to do other do something your daddy likes to do

[thelasteiko]

No one is boring, even the quiet ones. We are all just very used to ourselves. An outsider looking in has a different perspective.