I feel like my little side is not welcomed

[yoshshy]

Hi! Im yoshi, im new at the community and i need help

I feel lonely whenever im in little space, i do have a caregiver but they dont have time to be with me on most cases and most times it seems like im just being a burden to them whenever im little

They're incredible and the most gentle person i know, but i feel like they regret accepting that part of me when our relationship started amost a year ago. Im very shy and quiet when im in little space and they often complain about me not being talkative and often they say im not a good boy, that really hurts my feelings

Lately they've been ignoring me whenever i get in little space and they give me the silence card while im on it and on the day after, i feel like i shouldnt been in little space anymore and i should just get ride of it someway, im afraid of being alone and being alone in a really young age (i get on baby space sometimes, but normaly im around 2-3 years old) is terrifying.

Sorry for the venting and for this being so long, i dont think anyone will read it but i needed to tell someone about it, sorry again ^-^

Edited January 9, 2023 by yoshi

[beanbean]

like  i always say talk to them let them know how you feel i am sure the would not want you to feel like your a burden. as great as they are sounds like they will understand

[yoshshy]

5 minutes ago, beanbean said:

like  i always say talk to them let them know how you feel i am sure the would not want you to feel like your a burden. as great as they are sounds like they will understand

Im really bad at confrontations so i dont know what to do

[beanbean]

its not really a confrontation your just trying to figure things out you don't have to be  pushy .just tell them what you need in the future. that all no nedd to argue

[yoshshy]

1 minute ago, beanbean said:

its not really a confrontation your just trying to figure things out you don't have to be  pushy .just tell them what you need in the future. that all no nedd to argue

Oki, thank u beanbean, i'll try ^^

[Sir GUS-gus]

13 hours ago, beanbean said:

like  i always say talk to them let them know how you feel i am sure the would not want you to feel like your a burden. as great as they are sounds like they will understand

Yes i agree, or else the problem might get bigger and your left speculating on what the other one is thinking. 

Take an example with me and my mamma. We had our arguments over the years. Some of them bad, some of them very bad, but we always talk it out and try to do better for each other. And to be honest i feel more in love afterwards then before the argument or fight. 

[Cebakes]

You are too young to settle,  feel lonely, or unfulfilled in little space.  You’ve been with your cg for a year, so they obviously know your wants, desires, and your needs, especially while in little space.     
 

It appears your cg does not like when you go into little space.  That’s unfortunate because it’s their role to help put you into and enjoy little space and it appears this is something that won’t change.  How long have they been a CG?

[Guest]

I agree with @Sir GUS-gus and @CebakesCebakes (my tablet decided your name needed to be twice... And it won't go away!)

I've been with my Daddy for almost 12 years and that first year was a learning period for both of us. Communication is always the key in any relationship. No matter the dynamic. Although each relationship is different, this year you've been together should still be at a point that you both have evolved to a level of understanding.  Over time the relationship can grow and evolve. Thru bad and good times. But you have to find the right partner to share it with. 

My little's come out on their own (but that's a whollle different story😏), but i do go thru experiences of quiet.  If it is hard for your little to come out, you need to ask yourself "Why?"  And then rectify the situation that is causing it.  If your partner is not the cg you need, you more then likely need to find someone more compatible with your needs. Your happiness is up to you and you alone. People in our lives just make that happiness and love even better! 🤗

Also, I'm not telling you go leave. That's your decision.  My remarks are just my humble opinion and nothing more. What you take away from it, is up to you. I wish you all the best in whatever you decide and I truly you find happiness.🤗