How do you know what age you are as a little?

[Dat_rugrat]

Hi, I'm sort of new to the little community and such and I was wondering how do you figure out what age you are as a little?

 

And are there different types of littles?

I know I'm a brat, But that's about it

Help please

[Guest Ginger-Kit]

Hi there Dat_rugrat! ^,^

 

I don't believe there's a definate way of figuring out what age you are. To me, it just depends what I like doing in my little or middle space. As a little, I love coloring, doodling, watching disney movies, cuddling my stuffies, and acting very girly, so I'd say roughly 4? As a middle, it's more video games, writing, and acting a bit like a brat, soo... maybe 10? or even 12? Then again, I tend to fluctuate greatly depending on my mood.

 

Everyone's different! If you can't single out an age, don't worry about it. Just be you! ^-^

[LolitasDaddy]

From what I've seen its common to have a few ages, or an age range. Explore yourself, feel it out, and try and not get too hung up on worrying about fitting into a certain range, or number.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

Hmm, I'm not sure it's possible to figure out an exact age. I seem to have a range, maybe 8 to 12? I dunno. It varies depending on what I'm doing in little space and even who's company I'm in (the lovely littles here sometimes makes me feel younger). If you get caught up on your age, you might miss the fun of being little but I'd base it on your likes. As for types, everyone's different. Some are girly, some are bratty, some are neither...it's all different.

 

<3

[Guest Miss Braid]

I try to mentally compare how I usually act when I'm little to how I used to act as a kid and match up the ages that way. For me it's pretty solid how old I'm gonna act. For some people it's more fluid.

[Guest littlemissragamuffin]

Alot Littles don't have a "Little age". I don't have a set age, I'm just me. However I'd say it's what you feel. It's yourself you should be asking, and don't let people bully you into thinking you need an a "Little age" to be little, cause it's simply not ture.

[Dat_rugrat]

Okay thank you

[Guest Jennyanydots]

Hmmm, I don't ageplay and I know some others don't either. Sir and I don't fit squarly into the DD/lg dynamic, so maybe it's unfair for me to comment much on specifics, but, personally, I just act myself. When I feel like being childish I am and when I feel like being a woman, I am - even if that includes being a little more dominating than Sir likes (which is a front. . .Sir loves it, and that's good too). My advice to you is to act however you feel and if you ever FEEL that a certain age suits you, you can play to that. I've also heard of people going back to an age/time they felt especially secure and happy, or conversly, an age/time they felt especially vulnerable or were taken advantage of or traumatized (to heal). Your partner needs to love all aspects of you and if s/he is a good CG, then s/he will help you find that place where you feel right at home. There's never a need to rush.