To include or not to include

[Flame wolf]

So I use online dating apps, and I was wondering if I should include a pic if me with a paci or not. I haven't really had much luck cuz im trans so my gut says not too as it will just make things worse, but a mdlg/ddlg relationship is something I know I want so maybe my guts wrong idk. I'm just looking for some opinions from others on the matter cuz im just not sure

 

(On a side note my profile does mention that I'm a little)

[Kittyprincessss]

I’d say just depends on what you’re comfortable with. Id assume that if you did include a picture with a Paci it would obviously be very clear what type of dynamic you need. But there is also the possibility that people may be mean and troll you? 

[Little kaiya]

I would have a tendency not to simply because you have no control over what someone does with it. Saying you're a little communicates clearly what you're looking for already I'd say.

Edited January 9, 2023 by Little kaiya

[beanbean]

yeah i mean at the end of the day if they don't like a picture of you with a paci. there most likely not for you . just be you write and put who you are most likley if your you if someone does answer there more likley what you are looking for 

[Mr. Ducky]

I agree with @Kittyprincessss about the risk. You know yourself best and whether or not you could handle that kind of negative attention. The fact that you mention being little in your text is probably a safer option, though nothing says you can't have something else more subtle in your picture like a favorite stuffie.