Younger Daddy?

[lilkittybaby]

Long and somewhat complicated story short, I (25 afab NB) all developing feelings for a younger guy. Legal obviously, but under drinking age. I'm really torn because I'm afraid it's a bad idea to pursue, but the heart wants what the heart wants. One of my concerns is I would want a D/s dynamic, and I'm worried about having a Daddy that's so young. Does anyone have experience with anything similar?

Thanks!

[Vampiress]

I have dated younger, but not anyone under 21 except when I was around that age myself. I know there are people here who have Daddies younger than them and it seems it can work out, but that's really dependent on his maturity level and what he wants. Taking the dynamic out of it and just looking at the romantic side of things, there are some concerns you need to keep in mind so you can be aware of any of the red flags of it not working out.

When it comes to relationships and especially marriage, relationships at that young of an age, especially teens/early 20s (and really just 20s in general) are more likely to fail because that's a period of time when people go through a lot of growth as a person. They start to mature (or maybe they never mature), and start figuring out who they are or what they want (or some people never figure this out). Because of this, two people who may start out compatible can grow apart and in different directions. If you notice this happening, don't blame yourselves, it's just something that happens and it isn't wrong. It can suck for sure, though. Just be aware if you find you two are not on the same page. Being on the same page is pretty important, especially with future desires and wants. Hard to make it work with someone long-term if you don't have similar goals in mind, especially with the big stuff (wanting kids or not wanting kids is one of those big ones that can become a huge issue later on).

[Little kaiya]

I'm 44 and my Daddy is 23. We've been together for the past 5 years, yes he was legal when we started dating, and we are talking marriage. Are there some challenges with having a younger Daddy, sure, but are they insurmountable or an barrier to happiness, absolutely not.

We have both a DDlg relationship and a D/s relationship wherein I am a collared submissive. Dating younger doesn't mean you can't have those things. What becomes far more important than a younger partners age is their maturity.

Edited January 7, 2023 by Little kaiya

[beanbean]

as long as you get to know them well and make sure they are mature  and all i really don't think age matters that much as long as there of age of course and you stated yes to this. in fact i think it happens more in some Sub Dom relationships as for some that adds more exciment to give control  to some one younger,.not sure that applies in ddlg or not to be honest , but no i think there is nothing wrong with a younger daddy

[lilpincess]

My daddy is almost ten years younger than me, but honestly I forget most of the time that he is. He’s definitely very mature, and he’s way more out together than I have ever been 😅.but yeah, what a lot of people say is true. Sometimes age is a big deal, but sometimes it really just is a number.