Can you tell?

[MissNMTX]

There was a thread recently about being noticed as being "little" in public. This got me thinking obviously in this forum we come either knowing what we are or with enough of an inkling to explore. I'm curious though, pardon me if this gets dark for a second, but it's the examples I can think of, that predator can sense prey. Abusers, con men and the like. So, I'm wondering are there ways that those of you who are daddies/ Doms can spot in public those of us who are submissive/little? I'm so curious for my own self! Maybe something about the way we speak? I really don't know, but I'm so curious about any "natural" tells?

[Flame wolf]

I must say I'm curious about this as well.

[Nymph]

I am not a CG but I can tell. 

I am discrete but when I find someone I can be myself with it's usually because they have either CG or middle traits, and I share that side of me without labels until I feel it makes sense to share if ever... I am a very private person though, so I don't usually share unless it's a potential partner and I can tell they might now what I am talking about. Sometimes I see them for afar, I get the vibe we could be friends when someone has a CG demeanor, usually a kind/warm smile and eyes, for littles is a playful outfit or accessory.

[Cebakes]

No I don’t think you can visibly tell, unless you are talking one on one and start giving off signals.  Now if you are dressed and acting in a very young way, someone may pickup on that.  All of the submissive women I’ve met have been strong, smart women with great careers and they carry themselves that way in public.   

[beanbean]

well  i have had coworkers i have wonder about . and sometimes i will be out in public and i will be like maybe thats a liitle. and i think thats very normal to be sure  with people in the commuity as thisis what we tend to gravitate too

[Kittyara207]

I have found a few Littles and a Middle in day to day.  And what I am pretty sure is atleast 2 Daddys and maybe a Mommy.   One daddy was on the plane with me on the flight from Newark to Tampa.  One Little and I wore the same necklace we bought off etsy.  Symbol for Little.  The other I figured by her backpack that said 'I'D RATHER BE IN SPACE,'  in big bold letters.  However if you look closely between the word (in) and (space) I saw in small letters and quotation marks 'Little'.

It was awesome.

Edited July 18, 2023 by Kittyara207

[AspiringDaddy]

Once you know what to look for I may have seen a (age gap) couple. So cute.

10 hours ago, Kittyara207 said:

One Little and I wore the same necklace we bought off etsy.  Symbol for Little.

I hope you don't mind me asking. We're looking for a necklace that could pass. Any recommendations, links? TIA.

[Kittyara207]

Etsy...CaptiveVollars is the seller.  Looking at them.  Also DaddysLittleDungeon.  They have stuff for middles, Mommys, Daddys, ADBL too.  And unless you know...

Edited July 19, 2023 by Kittyara207

[DaddyDom3238]

Hello, 

What a great topic of conversation, I don't think it is always obvious, however I have encountered little/subs in public before where I had an inkling that they were. It really depends on the way  a little carries herself in public regardless of what her attire is and can especially be seen when eye contact is made or a simple hello and the littles reaction to that at times. Not always of course, I did meet a little in public and we ended up talking and it was extremely obvious, we went and got ice cream and ended up being together for a couple of years. 

[Guest mortyyy]

I feel like you can't really tell, but i feel like it's something I always have to hide and I'm always afraid someone will notice :S