Very New need help please

[Chelzies]

 

Hi everyone! I have recently been introduced to this lifestyle. I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. I have an amazing daddy dom teaching me but I need some feedback and support. After reading a lot of these conversations I realized I have so many similarities that I never acknowledged. For the first time my daddy  brought out a younger different side of me. It freaked me out after and felt so odd. I still can’t understand it. I feel stupid and silly at times but I think I need this. Can anyone tell me their first experience and if these feelings are normal. Is this something that gets more comfortable? How was it therapeutic for you? 

Edited December 17, 2022 by Chelzies

[beanbean]

well i am mostly a cg i know that there are tons of very smart littles that can help you here ,just keep reading the forums and learning and it should all come together . welcome and i hope you find the anwsers your look for here

[Nymph]

Could it be that you do age regression? I don't so my experience will not be relevant to you, we are all different.

You may want to read about little space too, if it's not clear then for more extreme examples look up subspace and subdrop, there is a lot more info on this and the contrast might give you some clarity. This is a branch of BDSM after all so there are some overlaps.

I don't really have a "first" as I was basically like this as long as I can remember... I was mature for my age when younger, then age appropriate and as I got older I never grew out of the "childish" things I liked.

My little age does fluctuate though and the happier I am, the more hyper and the lower I go on my little age but it never gets low enough to be anything other than a middle. Definitely not a baby girl material here. It's not therapeutic for me, it's just being myself.

I think if something makes you uncomfortable, is super important you figure out why and you stop if you discover it's something you don't like or if it feels forced. You can always try again after you figure out what is off.

[Sloth Fairy]

Hi. I kind of always had this side of me but pushed it down because I thought I was being immature and should always act like a grown up. It wasn't until a few years ago that I learned about littlespace that it all clicked and in some ways it was kind of a relief to know there were others like me. On the other hand, I still get that critical inner voice that tells me I shouldn't be this way. Or that I'm being weird.  I've had times where I gave up littlepace and ended up regretting it. I always end up coming back to it though. It really helps me with anxiety and stress. It's been a learning process to come to accept it as a part of who I am. 

Stick around and read the posts here on littlepace and ddlg in general. Don't be afraid to ask questions. There are lots of helpful people here. 

[Phoenix78]

Hi. My first experience was also a little jarring. I freaked out and had a panic attack but it does get easier to not freak out at least for me. Those types of feeling are perfectly fine to feel and aren't weird at all. I slowly eased into the idea of little space and age regression and it was a slow process but helpful in the long run. I hope this helps a little. I'm also a dom not just a little so it might not be super helpful