PrincessMuhree Posted December 3, 2022 Report Posted December 3, 2022 10 REFLECTION QUESTIONS FOR RELATIONSHIP READINESS 1. What are your best traits in a relationship? (Hint: The man in your life must benefit from these traits.) 2. Do you allow people to see who you really are right away or do you wait until there’s trust? (If you’re pausing here. It’s time to get to work. If you wait to show the real you until there’s trust, you’ll attract the wrong person every time.) 3. What are some of the challenges of being in a relationship with you? We all have our flaws. It’s what makes us human. (If you’re stuck, think back on your last 3 significant relationships. What would they say if asked this question about you? It’s important to know so you can attract the person who will support you instead of tearing you down. It’s also going to tell you what you need to work on.) 4. How do you show and receive love? (Go beyond The Love Languages. It’s not enough to know what your love language is, it’s more important to know WHY it’s your language. Contrary to popular belief, it’s nearly impossible to get someone to love you in the way you want unless they’re already experienced at doing it for someone else. It’s a much easier road to begin with a man who’s already adept at giving and receiving love in a way that’s compatible with you.) 5. What are your top 3 core values that guide your life? Have the men in your life refected these values? 6. Are you carrying any anger or sadness from your previous relationship? (If so, choose to heal today. You can’t build anything new on a shaky foundation. Start fresh. Your future is waiting for you. Don’t get stuck in the past.) 7. Do you express yourself openly and honestly with the men you meet? (In other words, is it easy to know your heart quickly or do people have to guess how you’re feeling?) 8. How confident do you feel right now about yourself? (Be honest. We all have bad days. I’m talking about your overall confidence no matter what comes your way.) 9. Do you place more importance on your needs or your wants? (Superficial requests yield superficial results. Every time.) 10. Have you created emotional and physical space for someone in your life? In other words, are you able to be vulnerable and trusting and do you actually have time for a significant relationship?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Like anything in life that’s worthwhile, preparation has been the key to your success. Don’t stop at your career and education. Take this valuable time to prepare before your next relationship and you’ll avoid much of the chaos, frustration, pain, disappointment that so many women experience who don’t prioritize self-knowledge. Men will come and go in your life, but you will remain. You’re the most important person in this journey called life. Dig in, investigate, learn, grow, allow yourself to try different things on, feel your edges, ask for what you need. Above all. Be BRAVE. Love can’t exist without your courage. https://levelconnections.com/10-questions-for-relationship-readiness/
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