nymphette Posted November 21, 2015 Report Posted November 21, 2015 Hello everyone! I have decided I need to make a thread about this topic to get some advise. I Have been out of work now since March of this year. I have recently scored a job and start my official day tomorrow (11/21/15). In my time of unemployment, I have been able to go into littlespace whenever I felt I needed too or even if I just felt like I wanted to. I now feel like since I am use to doing this, I am just going to do this whenever I please, this may happen while I am at work. I do not wish to lose my job over this but I do not wish to lose the littlespace I have. How do you littles deal with balancing work and your littlespace. How can I do this with out wanting to lose it, or have a break down at work! Any advise would help at this point!
kitten monster Posted November 21, 2015 Report Posted November 21, 2015 I have personally never had this issue, mostly because I think in my work I am responsible for a lot of other people and just in general have a lot of responsibility that I take really seriously, so I'm just in a whole different mindset when I'm there. It's like my brain KNOWS that this is the time to be an 'adult' and so I've never felt the urge to be little. Although I can sometimes find it relaxing to, while at work, daydream about cuddling with Daddy under the blankies as soon as I get home, and that motivates me and keeps me calm I suppose. Can I ask a bit more about your job? Do you have your own workspace? And have you held this kind of position before/was littlespace an issue in the past?
Guest DaddysLolita Posted November 21, 2015 Report Posted November 21, 2015 I've never had an issue with slipping into little space at work either. I'm on my feet 8 to 9 hours and almost constantly moving, unless it's a slow day so being little is far from my mind. If I had a desk job....that might present a problem. Seeing how I don't have my own space either, there's no room for items or objects that would trigger it. Without a little more information like what kind of space you'll have or opportunities to slip into little space, it's hard to give helpful advice. <3
Guest Pouty Kitten Posted November 21, 2015 Report Posted November 21, 2015 Just as everyone above me has said, it really depends on what kind of work you're doing. I've never had this issue because my work requires me to speak/touch my clients. My mindset is focused on work and always will be so there's really no room for me to slip into little space.
nymphette Posted November 22, 2015 Author Report Posted November 22, 2015 I am a cashier and I slip into littlespace anywhere when underpressure, stressed,and others. I didnt do it today, but I wanted too. Few times. I guess I'm not normal..
Guest DaddysLolita Posted November 22, 2015 Report Posted November 22, 2015 I am a cashier and I slip into littlespace anywhere when underpressure, stressed,and others. I didnt do it today, but I wanted too. Few times. I guess I'm not normal.. Awwwes, You're normal! I think it'll take some getting used to after an extended period of time of being able to be little whenever you want to.
Guest Ginger-Kit Posted November 22, 2015 Report Posted November 22, 2015 I'm the same as the others... My work is really people-oriented and stuff, so it's rare that I slip into my little-space. If we're not busy though, I grab my tablet (it has a coloring book program on it) to satisfy myself. There have been a few times where an argument has caused me to go into little-space and I was extremely upset for a few hours. It wasn't until I got to talk to my boyfriend that I started to calm down, and even then, some supervisors pulled me aside to check on me. It's not something I can... control? all the time. I think that's the right way to phrase it?
creepycutie805 Posted November 23, 2015 Report Posted November 23, 2015 My current job is kitchen food prep at a restaurant. I can easily slip into "little space" at times but it doesn't interfere with my work. Overall my job is pretty fun and not that difficult.
The Perennial Princess Posted November 24, 2015 Report Posted November 24, 2015 When I'm at school or my part time job, I really have no littlespace. The desire to be little simply isn't there and this is compounded by the fact that my papa isn't there. Although he is certainly the one who gives me the motivation to complete all of my big girl tasks, I lack the desire to be little in his absence. My profession on the otherhand is different. I am going to be an elementary teacher and I definitely go into little space when I'm in the classroom. I simply can't help it. I love being around all of the little babies and interacting with them. Of course there's a level of conduct to uphold but at the same time, I feel I chose the perfect profession for being a baby. I love creating cute, fun, activities for the other babies and making sure that they are having fun. I love encouraging creativity and childishness. I love being able to connect with students on that level because I am a baby at heart myself. I find that it encourages the kids to love, respect, and listen to me on a more intuitive level. I really love being in the classroom with kids and being a kid with them and I think this helps rather than harms me. Being around the other teachers is a different story. I definitely feel deflated given my loner nature and disdain for superficialities but that is a very small part of the job. The heart of it is influencing and educating students in fun, positive ways. There is a time to be serious and big kids but I will embrace that side of me as I encourage my students to do so as well. The emphasis is on creating a safe learning environment where every student feels special and free.
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