LDR Daddy tricks

[MissNMTX]

Hi all.

I have wanted a weighted blanket for about a year now. I tried a Christmas gift someone got and it was amazing. I don't have anxiety or even sleep trouble so I don't "need" one. I just want one.

Warm and cozy is just my vibe and I'm all in on anything that makes my sleep experience more relaxing or decadent. The extra weight does make me fall asleep faster.

So, over thinker that I am, I wonder if the extra weight and warmth helps me feel more like I have a daddy here with me.

Since none of my "daddy" relationships have been here with me in person I'm curious. For those of you in LDR's what tricks do you use to make it feel more like your daddy/cg/little is physically with you even though they aren't?

[beanbean]

oh i like the question for sure . not sure i ever have done more them made my self as available as i could . but yeah maybe thres is more i could have done for sure and its very worthy point to think about for sure . like i said i tried to talk and watch with them and just be there . but yeah maybe there is more that can be done

[Guest Crybunbun]

I love wearing a hoodie i got from him (that he used to wear) - or cuddle with a plush he gifted me.
Other than that i am good in imagination ; hehe
So closed eyes and imagine dada is there with me ❤️

[Kuri_Rose]

Back when I had a LDR Daddy, all we had for video chatting was Skype so we would Skype as often as we could and generally he'd do things like read me to sleep or just stay on his computer working while I slept, either through the night or during a nap. And honestly it was great when my nightmares were bad because I knew that he was right there a lot of the time. 

Discord and Facetime are other excellent things to use. I've had Discord servers used for rewards, punishment, rules, and chore lists. Its also a good way to monitor my game play on the laptop because it shows in Discord what I'm playing and when. The thing I like about Discord is that I can be creative with the server and make "rooms" for different types of role play if needed, can have a room where we can share photos back and forth, like I can post things I've drawn or colored or written, we can post things that are funny or interesting throughout our days ect. 

Edited February 13, 2023 by Kuri_Rose

[Erasmeus71]

Another thing about the computer. You can show what you are eating. The little shows a picture of there meal to there Mommy or Daddy 3 times a Day. Now since this takes room. One may need to delete stuff. Otherwise your using up ram on computer. Show how the room looks. Show your outfits on you. If your Daddy or Mommy has meant and has the money. They can put a camera in your room or rooms. To keep an eye on you in your house while you are at home. That has been done. Expensive. Has to be connected to then computer. They then keep an close I on a lot of stuff. Heck like smart cameras.

Edited February 13, 2023 by Erasmeus71

[Fuego]

So LDR relationships can be so wonderful and fulfilling when you have trust and good communication, but of course the one thing they are missing is the physical connection. 

 

So my best Daddy trick I can think of is to get your little one of those wifi/ Bluetooth controlled buzzy toys. You can call at night or even VC and play with it together and if you have that oh so close connection it can be as intense and fulfilling as the real thing. 

 

In our small niche community it's not always easy to find local people to date so if you are in LDR I highly recommend anyone tries one of these. 

[Guest SuperBunny]

Hi. 
I think it is important first of all that you both are making your best effort. Communication is especially critical in an LDR. 

Make time for each other and find games you can play and have frequent video chats and do tasks.  Watch movies together. Find interesting questions or articles to read and discuss to get to know each other better. 
it isn’t always easy but a LDR can be very special.