CG/l play parties

[SpinSpinSugar]

This has been a thowt on my mind of late - a need for more CG/l play parties in kink. I'm no stranger to the mainstream BDSM scene and when I was into that, it was pretty good. But now I've gravitated more toward DD/lg, I don't feel comfortable at mainstream kink-parties anymore - I know I'm not the only one in this regard. A lot of the Daddies and littles I've spoken to here in the UK avoid munches and play parties as the interests are so wildly variable, or because if they're little they just attract predators due to vulnerability. It can definitely feel odd to be dressed in petticoats and lace while everyone else is in latex and leather.

 

Maybe there needs to be a concerted effort out there to create some play-spaces specifically for CG/l ? I know I've seen some AB groups, however I've not seen much else about. In the UK in particular it seems unless you're in London, you're out of luck. I've been thinking of starting some organisation in the SW UK, but my energy levels and caring responsibilities make it a bit problematic (everyone wants weekends, and weekends are the one thing I can't do).  Still, nothing ventured...

 

Once upon a time I started up the first masked balls in the UK, under the premise that once I started doing those, other people would take up the idea and I would just attend other people's. It worked! So maybe if we get the ball rolling, it could start being a 'thing'. I've found in this regard you can't really wait for someone else to do it - you have to decide to make the event you'd like to attend, and then go from there.

 

So how about it? Perhaps a concerted effort - be the change you want to see and all that? It would be a lot of responsibility and take a fair bit of time, but I think it's needed.  And if there are parties out there, perhaps we can put links to where they happen and when all in one spot.

[ShyIsabella]

This would such a great idea. There are literally no DD/lg play parties in the South of England and any play parties are all to do with mainstream BDSM, such as dungeon parties and such.

[Guest DaddysLolita]

This would be a great idea. I've never been to any type of parties for bdsm but I love the idea of Cg/l parties..having littles to play with....Cg's could interact..it'd be fun.

 

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[SpinSpinSugar]

Well I'll certainly see what I can do to start something up and use some guidelines from some other details. I'll also see if I can round up some of the little events and munches and things I've seen on Fetlife, as not everyone has Fet.  If I could get a sticky for that it would be grand.  But not tonight, I haz a tired.

[SpinSpinSugar]

Righto - first thing I'm doing is compiling a list of places where munches are being held in the UK, generally, as if these are being done already, the venues would be more or less ok with more kinky freaks in their establishment. The next thing I'm doing is trying to establish and network with some trusted people who could act as Munch-Mentors for people who are very shy and insecure about meeting strangers (myself included!) Unfortunately one of the people I really wanted to speak to about this is someone I can't contact :/ But I'll keep looking round. I'm going to extend some feelers into the UK DD/lg groups (few and far between tbh!) and see what can be done. I'm just really steering away from everything being centralised to London - even though DD/lg is a rare kink in the UK and maybe of the groups tend to dry up, I think it's do-able.

 

I'll see what I come up with. But I'd also encourage people in other groups I don't belong to, maybe put some feelers out? Perhaps the idea just needs a spark.

[SpinSpinSugar]

Ok, getting started here! I'll edit as I come across things.

 

UK:

 

Little Big Land - Birmingham UK hosting quarterly events, movie screenings, and so on. Seems to be a pretty good time: can be contacted at littlebigland00ATgmailDOTcom - also have a fetlife group for people who have those. https://fetlife.com/groups/114384 ; ID required to attend events to confirm identity and keep everyone safe.

 

 

Little Play Play - Blackpool Lancs UK 23 January 2016 ; movie places, play spaces, changing areas, nap spaces. Held at The Unit in Lancs.  Contact at http://purpleport.com/portfolio/theunitto reserve space

 

 

 

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USA: (per littlespace online)

 

 

• CAPCon (Chicago, IL)
• http://chicagoageplayers.com/
• Recent Date: March 27, 2015 - March 29, 2015 past
• Upcoming Date: March 18, 2016 - March 20, 2016

 

• TeddyCon (Allentown, PA)
• http://www.teddycon.org/home
• Recent Date: October 09, 2015 - October 11, 2015 past
• Upcoming Date: October 13, 2016 - October 16, 2016

 

• USLittles International Ageplay Retreat (Evergreen, Montana)
• http://www.uslittles.com/
• Recent Date: October 20, 2015 - October 27, 2015 past
• (My note) Upcoming Date: TBA, October 2016

 

 

[SpinSpinSugar]

Giving this a bump as I've been adding more parties. It seems DD/lg play parties is starting to become a Thing, as well as separate munches as I'm starting to see them springing up in various places on Fet. I'll try and keep up