Dealing with a Break Up

[Guest PGSuggested]

Anyone had a little leave you?

We were together 5 years. 

She broke up with me over text. She told me I didn't meet her needs.

 

Its insanely tough. She was my little girl you know? She was my world.

[Married_Lg]

I’ve had a daddy leave me? And it’s sucks. Totally freaking sucks. You have my sympathies. Just try to take time for you, don’t rush into anything, make friends for the sake of friends and if it’s meant to be, it will. 💛

 

(P.S. breaking up over text is crazy. Idc who you are, nobody deserves that.) 

[Andriel_Isilien]

1 hour ago, PGSuggested said:

Anyone had a little leave you?

We were together 5 years. 

She broke up with me over text. She told me I didn't meet her needs.

 

Its insanely tough. She was my little girl you know? She was my world.

Yes, my husband left me even though he agreed to be my Daddydom. 💔 It SUCKS! I am so sorry

This has been helping me this year as I keep moving forward from my breakup:

-Vent and cry about it if you need to. This can be writing out your feelings or talking to someone you trust.

-Discover a new hobby. Something you are passionate about or that brings you joy.

-Delete, block, unfollow anyone that brings back connections with your ex. This is VERY hard and must be done carefully as you weigh who is best to keep in your life for YOU.

-Work on improving yourself. Yes, you feel like a wreck right now so invest in getting healthier, stronger, or whatever. This period of time, everything in your life is about YOU.

-Stay active. The hurt will keep flooding back in. Give space for those hard feelings but don't stay in them. Keep getting back up. Keep moving forward.

Repeat over and over as time will make it more bearable. Be patient with yourself. You are going to be OK and you can get through this💗 

[Guest PGSuggested]

5 hours ago, Andriel_Isilien said:

Yes, my husband left me even though he agreed to be my Daddydom. 💔 It SUCKS! I am so sorry

This has been helping me this year as I keep moving forward from my breakup:

-Vent and cry about it if you need to. This can be writing out your feelings or talking to someone you trust.

-Discover a new hobby. Something you are passionate about or that brings you joy.

-Delete, block, unfollow anyone that brings back connections with your ex. This is VERY hard and must be done carefully as you weigh who is best to keep in your life for YOU.

-Work on improving yourself. Yes, you feel like a wreck right now so invest in getting healthier, stronger, or whatever. This period of time, everything in your life is about YOU.

-Stay active. The hurt will keep flooding back in. Give space for those hard feelings but don't stay in them. Keep getting back up. Keep moving forward.

Repeat over and over as time will make it more bearable. Be patient with yourself. You are going to be OK and you can get through this💗 

Im sorry to hear about what happened to you as well. Recovering is a lot. Its really work. 

This is a great list and no doubt will help me. 

This will help me stay strong.

Thank you

Edited November 1, 2022 by PGSuggested

[beanbean]

sadly people leave other people hearts get broken , its hard but you to keep going as in most cases is someone is willing to leave you it was never going to work and you got to keep going its not easy but its important , so maybe you can find your best scenario

[Cebakes]

I went through a break up this year and it was brutal. We were together 3 1/2 years and always talked about my middles desire to meet someone her own age and get married. This was very important to her and something we discussed from day one.  Our age gap made getting married somewhat difficult for the two of us.

Even though we knew this day would come and did our best to make this as painless as possible, it really stung.   I tried to keep myself as busy as possible, spent more time in the gym, went on a diet, did a solo trip to Jamaica, visited more with local family, and looked back on what I could have done different or do differently in the future.  
 

I won’t lie, it took me a good three or four months to get over this.  Time does heal all wounds and you will get past this.

 

 

[LongTimeMe]

My sympathies and thoughts to everyone who has had to go through this. 

Finding out by text is just so cruel and cowardly on your little's part. The least she should have done is said it to your face.

The fault is not yours, so don't think it is. 

This may sound crass, but the universe usually knows what it's doing and ends up giving you better in the long term, so, as Cebakes and other said, take time for you.

[StraightTopDaddy]

How to handle a breakup?

A breakup is a death. A death of a relationship. And as in death, a loss of a loved one.

So you deal with it the same way that you deal with a death of a loved one.

You prob have heard that after a death (or breakup/divorce), of a loved one, you need to go thru a recovery period. Only you will know when you are ready to get involved with someone again. The recovery period length can vary. For some people they never fully recover.

When my ex gf and I broke up, I cried. The only time in my adult life that I ever cried about anything. I just couldnt stop crying.

When I told her that I was crying, she said,

"That's unacceptable."

? Oh, sorry, I'll just hold my breath till I pass out. She was wierd like this anyways. She is a Fem fatale, if you know what this is. Very dangerous woman. The police wouldnt even go over to her house. She kept all of these wild dogs in her house. Ugh!

The break up was about three years ago now. I am totally over her. I've been totally over her for a couple of years now. Just difficult finding a new lover.

I hope this helps someone. I have never shared this with anyone before.

 

[Driygon]

yes and Its really horrible.

I was in a 3 year long distance dynamic with a little and she meant the world to me and was one of the most important people in my life. she visited me for months at a time but I found out that when she went back to her country she was with someone else. When I confronted her about it she broke up with me and it completely destroyed me for months. That was 10 months ago and im only just starting to recover and trying to get back into the community