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I was approached this week by a 35 year old woman on a non-DDLG site and  we’ve had a number of great online discussions and really seem to click.  She is out of the country for a week but has been very much initiating a fair amount of great chats.  

She’s had D/S relationships that sounded like they were not great and the doms weren’t very good people.  She likes my story, as well as my vision and role of a daddy Dom/ddlg,  boundaries, trust, communication, etc.  Her knowledge and experience with DDLG is very limited.   She feels she may identify or relate as someone in the 10 to 12 year old range. 

I was wondering if anyone remembers any old threads here that would be useful for someone new to read to help them better understand DDLG. Would also be interested in any other blogs, forums, resources, etc. for her to read and utilize.

She is also very curious and interested in how one falls into little space. As a daddy dom there’s only so much I can share with her or try to comment on. I’ve done my best to share past experiences with women.  I’ve told her it starts with trust, communication, and establishing a very high level of comfort. I want her to feel totally vulnerable, yet safe and protected.  This will certainly be about using this as a way to escape every day high level stress and demands.  We are both highly sexual so there would be that aspect to all of this as well.

I would like ideas on what to do when she is at my house and we are hanging out and the desire for her to fall into little space. We’ve talked about drawing,  painting, toys, (could use ideas one these)!!!!but I was curious if you guys could provide some other ideas? What can help set the overall vibe?  I did send her links to several clothing sites and she really liked that. 

 I”m trying to get a true understanding of what the real reason is why she is interested in DDLG and having a daddy Dom. There’s always a real reason at the core of things when someone enters into this type of relationship.

Thanks!!

 

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Not sure if this will help, but aside from this forum I also found littlespaceonline.com to be really great, with discussion threads, info, and resources for newcomers :)

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2 hours ago, lyyynne said:

Not sure if this will help, but aside from this forum I also found littlespaceonline.com to be really great, with discussion threads, info, and resources for newcomers :)

Thats exactly what I am looking for. Thanks so much!

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Hi Hi Cebakes!!  I've responded to a few of these types of posts, so if you seen it and dont feel its a good fit, you can ignore this post. 
I would recommend some of these starter videos:

Now you will get different opinions of what age play is, what ddlg play is..so i hope you convey to her that all these sources you give her is just different viewpoints, and she will need to make her own definition of what it means to her. 

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4 hours ago, Alana_Lala said:

Hi Hi Cebakes!!  I've responded to a few of these types of posts, so if you seen it and dont feel its a good fit, you can ignore this post. 
I would recommend some of these starter videos:

Now you will get different opinions of what age play is, what ddlg play is..so i hope you convey to her that all these sources you give her is just different viewpoints, and she will need to make her own definition of what it means to her. 

This is all good stuff. I will cut and paste and forward this to her. Always appreciate your insight on these topics.  You did share some thoughts on my question dealing with a little having PTSD several weeks back.

That did not go anywhere. I  feel bad for her and ignored some very early red flags.  Her issues clearly impact her ability to function day to day and certainly have stopped her from having relationships.  She admitted as much and I told her always feel free to reach out to me. 

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I can tell she is very intrigued by what I forwarded to her.  She left for  Mexico City last Friday night with some friends for the day of the dead festival this week.  I really didn’t expect to hear from her until she returned.  We chatted for a while yesterday,  she shared some cool pics with me, and I sent her the DDLG info. She sent me some texts last night as well as more pics,  you can tell she is soaking all of this DDLG info up like a sponge. 
 

Thanks again for the valuable insight and information. Feel free to keep it coming!

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