looking for tips to help comfort my non-verbal little.

[anonymousCG]

Hello everybody!

I have recently gotten together with a girl and we're both into ddlg and she goes little fairly often, usually once per day. The thing is we live across town so im not always there but we will voice/video call when shes feeling little. What sort of things can I do to comfort her and make her feel safe?

She tends to say that shes lonely and tired (mentally and physically) earlier in the day. She's been going non-verbal when shes little so im left by myself to try and keep a convorsation going as shes falling asleep. She likes when I talk about random things but im just curious if theres any other things that ya'll do with your non-verbal littles? or am I doing okay?

I would love to have interactions weither it be games or activites I can do with her. I'm just not used to this type of thing because the only other little I had before was done fully through texting and we would roleplay and be in our own littlespace world. (for example she could be sitting on the couch and I could setup a movie night and get popcorn and juice etc. through text but its not the same speaking like that lol) So im not sure if shes like that but i'll have to ask and see. It's a lot easier for me to roleplay through text verses voice.

What could I suggest or do, or what do ya'll like to do?

Thanks!

[Ariadna]

Hi! ☺️
I'm a non-verbal little too, I think you should search for "Pictograms", those are images of emotions, activities, objects... and your little can make decisions without talking.

For example:
Image of a book = Read
Image of a kid on a bed = Sleep

[tomuyan]

hi there! I might not be able to offer suggestions on how to encourage your little to communicate when nonverbal, but I can offer some ideas on what to do! you mentioned your little likes to hear you talk- reading them stories may be a good way to still interact without having to focus on a conversation! or putting on a movie that you can both watch over a call, so even if you're not side by side it still feels like spending time together. or maybe singing/humming while you work on something? when I or my bunny feel nonverbal, there's not an expectation to continue a conversation when either of us don't have the emotional capacity for it. we enjoy a good snuggle or some quiet time simply existing in each other's presence. that may be a bit harder for you since you don't live together, but the opportunity to have the call set up while you work on something else is still there! good luck friend !!