Bed wetting

[CG momma]

So my little is having lots of bed wetting issues and I’ve tried everything with them and nothing works we have been to doctors all they said they are drinking to much water but my little is drinking the right amount and they wet through diapers nearly every night no nightmares could someone please tell me how to help my little 

[Little-star]

Maybe a swimming diaper could work. Or water resistant blanket. 

You can also put like a big a period pad in the diaper. 
i hope this helps. 

[LoverEcho]

I would try different doctors, a urologist would be the best option. There are a few serious illnesses that can cause bed wetting in adults. If your little is biologically male, they should have their prostate checked if you have not tried that yet. Some doctors are quick to dismiss the idea of serious illness if someone is on the younger side. I know medical care can be expensive in some places, but pushing for more thorough tests might be necessary. In the meantime, you could try stopping any drinks an hour before bed, limit caffeine (including chocolate) after 4pm if your little consumes it, and buy a reusable waterproof pad for the bed to help with mess until you can get to the bottom of this. 

Edited September 19, 2022 by LoverEcho
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[DaddysMonkey]

Hi there 👋🏻
 

@LoverEcho gave some really sound advice as far as the medical aspect goes. 
 

My first thoughts that pop up are mental aspects. Going to several doctors or specialists is the best route to go , but I would honestly consider having a serious sit down with your little also.

Of course there are medical issues that could be unseen or unresolved and that is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. I’m only going off the information provided so I could be way off here , but who knows maybe it’s something to think about. 
 

You say you’ve been to doctors , as in plural. If you’ve seen several doctors about this issue (omitting the fact that something could be overlooked or they need a specialist of some sort) , this seems more like a possible mental issue as well. 
 

Two things immediately come to mind ; 

- They possibly have a wetting fetish they are too afraid to confide in you about and are using this as an outlet to live that fetish or fantasy. Because of this fear / possible embarrassment and not confiding in you , they aren’t speaking up about not needing a doctor but rather just having a specific kink. So the only answers you will really receive is “too much liquids”. 
 

- They are seeking attention and are unsure of how to ask for it otherwise. This isn’t the mature thing to do , or healthy either I suppose. But I try to think outside of my own set ways , and not everyone knows how to verbalize and communicate how they’re feeling. It can end up in situations like this where a partner is trying things to get the attention they are wanting without actually having to communicate or ask for it. It goes hand in hand with bad behavior in my opinion. Hence me saying this isn’t the mature thing to do , but because they are little I could see this kind of thing happening. 
 

These mental and emotional aspects are why I suggest a serious sit down with your little. If you continue to go to doctors and specialists and receive no diagnosis or are told from numerous different doctors / specialists that nothing is wrong , it’s very likely the above stated could be going on. Even if it’s not attention seeking or a hidden fetish , they could be hiding nightmares even if you say there are none. They could be hiding some mental anguish which can lead to bed wetting as well. So other than doctors for medical reasons , maybe suggesting a session with a therapist would be beneficial for your little as well. 
 

Wish you the best 🐾
 

 

 

Edited September 19, 2022 by DaddysMonkey

[Sloth Fairy]

Since there's not a lot of info to go on here I'm probably  asking questions you already have answers to. Have they gone to a urologist?

How are they doing with going during the day? Are they able to empty completely when they go? Do they wear diapers all the time or just at certain times?

If they have an overactive or underactive bladder bed wetting can happen. If they use the toilet during the day, every 2hr bathroom trips can help. But ultimately seeing a urologist would be the most important thing, if there is a physical cause

[Guest Daddylyfe]

From someone who had the opposite problem, not being able to go at all... I went to the urologist and found out that problems with urination (both ways) can be part of a neurological disorder (which I have). Also the first urologist I saw was useless. I suggest you see one and if you don't get the answers, get a second or even a third opinion. Seeing a neurologist might be helpful too because there's a connection there most people don't know about. I hope this helps. 

[Vampiress]

I've debated pretty heavily answering this question, but I feel it may help someone else so I will just get over my fear of talking about this publicly. I feel like @DaddysMonkeyhas been pretty brave around other topics lately and opening up, and I feel kind of inpsired to do the same right now.

 

Trigger Warning: Trauma

When I was very very young I suffered from sexual abuse from my own father for several years (before kindergarten age). As I got older I had this persistent bed wetting issue for many, many years. I had tried everything... changing sleeping habits, altering drinking habits, medications, etc. None of it ever worked and I feared it was just going to be an issue I dealt with my entire life. This left me with a lot of shame and made it to where if I ever stayed at a friend's house overnight I'd just not sleep at all. Fast forward to my senior year of high school... my father ended his life (he was not a part of my life anymore) and pretty much immediately the issue completely resolved itself out of no where. What I had come to realize is that I had lived in fear of him my entire childhood and teenage years subconsciously, and somehow it was creating this issue. Once he was gone the fear and weight was lifted, and with it the issue disappeared. I have never ever once had that problem since that happened.

My point is, though there may be a medical reasoning for it, or maybe your little really has a fetish they're not admitting... but it's also quite possible that if they have a history of trauma that there may be some unresolved fear or issue causing them to continuously wet the bed. If medical attention doesn't work out, try therapy.

Signs: very deep sleeper, hard to wake up, frequent nightmares.

Edited September 20, 2022 by Vampiress
I wanted to add signs to look for if it might be a trauma issue...

[Guest]

Ive seen so much amazing advice here. only thing I can possibly add is the age of trick of
"go potty before bed, even if you dont need to!!"

So many people are shocked that just sitting on the potty can make you go pee, its a conditioning we all have from learning to potty train as a kid. and that you dont need the "urge" to have pee in your bladder. Psych 101 x) 

While i would definitely take all the amazing advice here alot more serious than my little tip, i hope something here helps you and your little 

[Guest]

Vampiress, your bravery to share, to want to so to help another is simply inspiring. I can't take away what happened but I wish nothing but the most beautiful, healing life for you.  

[DaddysMonkey]

I just want to take a respectful moment to applaud @Vampiress for being so open and strong. Thank you for sharing this part of your history with us , things like this can open someone’s eyes to something really deep seated in someone else’s trauma and give a different perspective which in turn creates more avenues available to help. 
 

 

[Vampiress]

6 minutes ago, Alana_Lala said:

Vampiress, your bravery to share, to want to so to help another is simply inspiring. I can't take away what happened but I wish nothing but the most beautiful, healing life for you.  

3 minutes ago, DaddysMonkey said:

I just want to take a respectful moment to applaud @Vampiress for being so open and strong. Thank you for sharing this part of your history with us , things like this can open someone’s eyes to something really deep seated in someone else’s trauma and give a different perspective which in turn creates more avenues available to help. 
 

Thank you both so much! I think enough years has past where I really need to get past the fear and try to deal with the shame, so getting this out in the open is a big first step. I hope that information helps someone whether that's now or someday in the future.

[Onesie]

I remember my first diaper punishment. I had to wear them all the time under my onesie and my husband dresses me in short skirts. He liked my submission and changing me so much, forgetting to ask permission would put me in diapers . Then I became dependent and started wetting the bed and my panties on long drives. He bought me a little potty and potty trained me all over again, giving me treats and encouragement.  That helped a lot. I still wet the bed occasionally and don't like using public restrooms. I prefer Daddy pullover and change me himself.  If you can't retrain them, I suggest rubber pants. Nothing got through those