New Little

[Lil_Minx]

Hello!

I have been within the BDSM lifestyle for about a year and a half now and I have come to the realization that I am a Little. I had a friend inform me about it and showed me all the signs and I can't believe I didn't see it for myself.

I also was told that Brats were a type of Little. I thought that Littles and Brats were two different types of submissive. Was I told wrong? I just want to make sure I'm getting everything out so that I can be happy with myself and be able to make my Daddy happy as well.

I am posting this today because I was wondering if anyone could give me any tips or advice on learning how to accept my own Little?

If anyone wants to message me or help, I would really appreciate it! This is a new thing that i have learned about myself so I am wanting to learn more and be educated so I can better understand what I need.

- Minx

[Vampiress]

Welcome!

A little and brat are technically different, but you can be both at the same time. Just like a little can be submissive, but not all littles are submissive or brats.

There's lots you can do to embrace this side of yourself. Getting yourself fun little space outfits, stuffies, littlespace activities that look fun to you, etc. Pacifiers, sippy cups, bottles, or whatever makes you feel like you're more immersed in your littlespace. Setting aside time for littlespace like watching cartoons or animated movies, playing littlespace friendly music or games, etc. I'd also recommend considering making friends in the community.

[Lil_Minx]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate the help. I will definitely keep learning things that help me know myself better and see what things help me feel happy in my little space.

[ZenDaddy]

Vampiress nailed it..  I think the bottom line is explore.. experiment, and see what ‘feels’ like You!  And if you go along, and you decide to change something, no sweat.. you are really the creator of what your Little does, enjoys, and likes.  Have fun with your journey, and Welcome!  🌹🌹

[Lil_Minx]

2 hours ago, ZenDaddy said:

Vampiress nailed it..  I think the bottom line is explore.. experiment, and see what ‘feels’ like You!  And if you go along, and you decide to change something, no sweat.. you are really the creator of what your Little does, enjoys, and likes.  Have fun with your journey, and Welcome!  🌹🌹

Thank you! I will definitely do this and see what comes about it. I'm very excited to see how I grow and experiment with this. It's definitely making me squeal with excitement 😊😁

[ZenDaddy]

Rockstar!!!