Let's discuss- Healthy Caregiving!

[DreamALittleDream]

I truly need in a d/s relationship for my partner to care for me.

I deal with depression and anxiety, on and off, fervently. And When I get scared or worried.. There is nothing I want more than my mommy to hold me and tell me that everything will be okay.

But Proper care is so important for littles and mommies! Mommy can only care for me when she herself is feeling alright if my mommy is sad, then I might only get a reminder to breathe..she might even distance herself a bit.. So I try to tend to her needs, as well. Sending her pictures when I can, links and songs and funny things to make her smiley . asking if she slept well and over loving it she hasnt.

 

Does anyone else try to give mommies/daddies lots of care? If so, what? Any ideas for long distance care giving?

Edited March 16, 2018 by DreamALittleDream

[nfostrike]

Hey I'd like to be a cg but need help learning about it can someone explain it as simple as possible

[Missi]

I honestly think knowing that my little is listening to me and taking care of themselves is a great way to show respect and care for your Big. Also the understanding that occasionally Bigs may need downtime and understanding that is very important. Communication is everything.

[Alexdander]

[Guest Feisty Bunny]

Basically any relationship I am in I love to play a role in helping and encouraging my partner in achieving their goals and becoming a better version of themselves as they see fit. So within a CG/L dynamic it's the same, but more intense. I create more rules and punishments based on things they struggle to do, but know they need to do.

 

I'm super encouraging rather than stern though as I'm not very mean. I hold off on punishment as much as possible, so this doesn't work so well for the bratty types I'd think  .

[Guest Peachy Paisley]

This has been really informative! We are in the process of coming up with some rules (or guidelines cause that sounds less strict!) and these posts have been very helpful to my daddy and I. 

[LittleBigHelper]

Im still learning the daddy ropes.. My Little has been hurting as of yesterday, and im sure its the cramps. I attempted to ease the hurt with some cranberry juice,(helps with Little Lady stuff) but she says its yucky and doesn't want it. How can I get her to at least have half a cup?

[LittleCelticLass]

Im still learning the daddy ropes.. My Little has been hurting as of yesterday, and im sure its the cramps. I attempted to ease the hurt with some cranberry juice,(helps with Little Lady stuff) but she says its yucky and doesn't want it. How can I get her to at least have half a cup?

I'm not a CG, but try mixing it with Sprite or Ginger Ale, and/or try Crangrape or one of the other blends.

[DaddyDomination]

Getting into physically and mentally healthy rules I think are both important and I love to see cg's who are thinking about that. Tailoring it to your little though..probably not a good idea to impose an exercise routine on someone who doesn't exercise or whatever.

I've been into Fasting for Myself for a year now. No I didn't starve for a year If I do eat at all though it's dinner and only that meal in an hours window. I work out almost every day. I'm around 40 lbs leaner than I was a year ago. I don't seek to try and transform anyone into a shredded barbie to play with. I'm all about the health aspect and functional fitness for both of us. I make sure if I have a one in My charge My aim is to improve their well being in all ways. One thing for those that never read much into or tried fasting: I went from being in 10 + medications, I've had Skin Cancer since 2004, spread everywhere in 2015 before fasting. 

After: I am on Zero medications I don't even need antacids for GERD anymore. I must be doing something right. 

I don't advocate for forcing anyone to not eat. Any dietary change should be gradual and consensual. You have to be aware of any and all medical issues for all involved as well. 

Edited March 2, 2021 by DaddyDomination

[DaddyDomination]

where can i go to get more advice on being a daddy? ( btw ima girl XP)

You could always just look, in the Daddy type threads, such as Caregiver Cafe. There's a few on here. 

[DaddyWolf90210]

My baby girl is such a little brat, and its one of the many things I find adorable about her. She is also a gentle and needy soul. She makes my heart melt with those big brown eyes of hers, I can never find the strength to punish her properly for her actions. I don't want to hurt her too bad. I admit, i am a huge pushover for my baby girl.

How can I change this?

[Sweet Sara.]

Need advise

[EyesOnFire]

Some really great advice and insights, Thank you 🙏

[wissing]

On 11/15/2015 at 3:44 AM, Guest Bear said:

Agreed. 

I think it's in my top 5 to:

Do Homework / Schoolwork.
Have a fixed, healthy meal- schedule.
Stay hydrated- water bottle should be with you at all times. Minimum 1.5 liters- 2 liters+ gets you a treat!
Fixed, fair bed time. If the little was well behaved, you can also treat her with an extra, lets say, hour to her bedtime.
Hygiene- Brush your teeth first thing after waking up and before going to bed! Flossing, again, can earn you treats


It's all pretty simple, but you end up with a pretty rewarding, caring system that is overall just good for your sub's health!

Plus, I find that texting her throughout the day and checking up if she's been drinking her water / eating properly is a good way to express love, give attention and just show you care. 
It's the little things(pun intended), you know?

I love your wanted to give you the love button but could not like your so desided to this instead 😊 I especially like the last part

[Sadistic_Nursing_Mommy]

I think the right type of discipline and the right type of punishment go a long way for me and mine...

 

Also making sure they know there is a reward they have say in, for going out of their way to do and give 150%