Breast pump and how it feels to be naughty in little space

[Someone quiet]

Hey guys, so this is the friend of the account owner and I'm using it at the permission to ask a few questions.

 

1. My dom has been thinking of using a breast pump as a part of roleplay, whether its on her or me, with her she says it would be a m/baby boy roleplay. She says the innocence of the mindset it put her last sub in turned her on. Both when she did it as mommy and her sub did it as " the baby making milk ". I'm wondering if this is normal as it seems a bit out there but then again it's a kink so anything's possible. 

2. How do you guys feel when "naughty" (sexually) in "littlespace"?

3. Some dude once told me that he  actually roleplays as an actual child. Not in the mindset of a youthful immature person. Like he imagines himself as an actual kid (sexually meaning he gets aroused at the thought of being an actual kid in roleplay ) and not just roleplaying in a immature headspace. Does everyone do this? And if so is this normal? Is this  p*d*philia? I'm not trying to kink shame but I wanna check as I have them as my friend on Facebook and if it isn't normal I'm worried. Again no offense I'm just curious. 

4. Is the innocence of the mindset what arouses you? How do you describe it? (Both dd/md and lb/lg pls)

5. Some people experience pocd within this community I believe and I wanna know if you guys think that it'd be hard for those people to differentiate between DDLG and actual p*d**hilia?

6. As a general rule how can I tell if a person is taking said kink too far? I know some people have a extreme love for it but can anything and everything be considered sexually arousing? Is the naivety of innocence part of it? Also how do you differentiate between the actual mindset of a child and DDLG mindset?

[Vampiress]

1.) What's normal in the world of kink? I don't know. I've heard of a vast array of kinks I'd never even thought of before and it's normal to come across many variations and ideas in kink. I'm not sure how popular those particular kinks are that you're asking about. I know breast feeding gets talked about in this and the ABDL community, but there are people who like it who aren't into DD/lg or ABDL at all. I know there are men out there who like breast feeding from their partners without ever being a little. I've heard on this forum some littles like the idea of breast feeding their partner so it sounds like there is some community there for subs who like doing the feeding rather than being fed. Either way, not sure what I'd classify as normal but it isn't hurting anyone or anything so it's totally okay.

2.) This is a very broad question. I am not a regressor (someone who psychologically regresses to the mind of a child to cope with things), and I don't pretend to be a certain age. I just have very child-like qualities and interests that are inherent parts of my personality so even if I feel sexual in littlespace I am still also an adult and capable of engaging and thinking about adult/sexual activities. I'm not really sure how to describe it.

3.) The guy sounds like an age player. Since he's playing as a child I assume he is not regressing psychologically (which can be involuntary). It is not pe####ilia because your friend is (I assume) an adult with an adult body and is legal age to consent. I do caution against Caregivers/Doms trying to engage true age regressors in sexual activity because those who psychologically regress might mentally be in the actual state of a child and any kind of sexual activity can be damaging during that time. I have heard some actual regressors can be sexual littles but often that does not seem to be the case, and generally a lot of "Ageres" are SFW littles who are very adamant against engaging with the DD/lg community and consider themselves seperate.

4.) My own "innocence" doesnt personally arouse me, perhaps it arouses Daddies/Doms? And I would not be surprised if there are littles who find their pleasure derived from that. I just like being taken care of and I enjoy the affection that comes along with a DD/lg dynamic.

5.) People who have POCD are attracted to minors and their body types, and I am pretty sure they very much can tell the difference between that and an adult's body. Real Mommies/Daddies in this community are attracted to adult bodies. It's not the same thing. Yes we have predators that hide in our community, but every kink community has predators hiding in them to some degree.

6.) First of all someone is taking anything too far if they're doing something that makes you uncomfortable and that you set boundaries for, or if you ask them to stop and they don't. Secondly, whatever they're into should not be illegal or hurting others. I think I answered the innocence part, but innocence is not just a thing for children. I have met plenty of innocent and naive adults who may have grown up very sheltered. As far as differentiating the mindset is because even if I am in littlespace I can stop at any time and handle adult things, and I am still an adult no matter what headspace I'm in. Underneath the littlespace headspace is still all of my adult worries, life, and responsibilities. The only ones who really can't differentiate are the ageres who regress to a child's mindset psychologically, and as I said no Dom or Caregiver should engage an agere in that kind of activity without express consent and the agere can show that they will be okay and not have any sort of damage from it. Consent is the main key here and only being involved with people who are of consenting legal age. Any time someone tries to do anything with a minor they are not truly part of the community and would be shunned if found out about. Honestly, if this kink was illegal or truly problematic I am sure none of us would be openly declaring ourselves as a part of it.