Share your stories and experiences with me!

[LilOaty]

Hello everybody! Currently I’m taking baby steps into this community! I’m really curious about how did you understand you are into ddlg? I’m trying to get to know myself better and explore this side!

 

Stories how you started your ddlg experience, some bad/good experiences with your little/caregiver. AND SO ON!

 

Please share some tips and most important stuff for beginner (everything that i need to know!) ! From where you buy your stuff, how to get to know your “little” self and so on…

 

I’m waiting for replies! So exited to start this journey as being little and finally accepting this side!

 

Lots of hugs, kisses and have a great day!! - August

[Guest]

Helllo and welcome to the community 💙
Its really hard to tell when exactly I started down my path to DDlg, I think I always had the personality and enjoyed the little activities but couldn't really label it till I got in my current relationship. Also I think I wouldn't have been able to actually commit fully to a DDlg relationship with anyone else due to a lot of my own past and how much trust you have to place in your caregiver to fully enjoy the dynamic. 

I recommend reallly trying out stuff that interests you about this lifestyle/kink, depending on how fully you want to immerse yourself in it. If your interested in trying a paci, buy a cheap one first to test out how you feel with it, I got one of my first from a dollar store just to see how i feel with it. I suggest doing that with anything that catches your attention if possible, blankies/sippy cups/ coloring books/ bows/ etc. 
The biggest thing is you do not need to invest a whole lot of money to experiment at first, I have seen so many people come into this thinking they need to buy specific brands from specific stores to be a "real little" and honestly you don't. You can be the perfect little if you are snuggled in your favorite blanket, coloring with cheap crayons on a spur of a moment bought coloring book from walmart and a big tshirt  that makes you feel smol as long as YOU are happy. 

I may post a few more responses to this but I just got off work and getting really sleepy. 
Again I am soo sooo happy to see you join our community and if you ever need to talk, im here ^-^

[Ukdaddy1980]

I'm not sure how or when I realised this was my role. I've always had a caring and nurturing side, I've worked within the care sector for around 20 years and raised my children which probably contributes to the non sexual aspect of that. I get warm fuzziness from watching a person grow and exceed their potential. I've always been affectionate too, cuddling anyone who I thought needed a cuddle. I would say it was at least 5 years ago that I found the DDlg scene and realised it was for me. The desire of being Daddy to a little, brat or baby girl is sometimes overwhelming. I was talking with a potential baby girl partner not very long ago and got very attached very quickly (a mistake in hindsight in terms of how quickly we became involved) but the feeling of being her Daddy for that short time, though we never got to meet in person, was incredible and made me understand the hole I've sensed in my life for many years. 

 

Basically I was put on this earth to be someone's Daddy. To love and care for her regardless of geography. I know she's out there and I'm going to find her.

 

If there is one piece of advice I could give, it would be take your time. Don't rush into something because it feels right in that moment, incase you later find out its not and then need to deal with the hurt of rejection. Your forever is out there, don't rush to find it as it will, when the time is right, find you...