AD/DL are you guys aroused by wearing baby clothes?

[Someone quiet]

It's in the title ig, are you guys simply interested in wearing baby clothes or do you guys feel aroused by wearing baby clothes?

Also same for diapers, do you find it hot to wear a diaper?

I hope I don't come off as rude. Its a genuine question. Thanks for reading!

[Titch]

As a guy, I find LG's in onesies super attractive.

Pullups look cute too 

[Little Becca]

It’s not so much that I am turned on by it, but more that I feel it’s right for me. Like I am being myself. 

And it feels nice if my Daddy finds me attractive when I am being myself!!!!

[Someone quiet]

33 minutes ago, Titch said:

As a guy, I find LG's in onesies super attractive.

Pullups look cute too 

So arousal is a role in both? 

A close friend has been getting into the community lately and has been wondering if it is normal (for both the little and the daddy) so I decided to take the liberty and check for them myself!

[Titch]

4 minutes ago, Someone quiet said:

So arousal is a role in both? 

A close friend has been getting into the community lately and has been wondering if it is normal (for both the little and the daddy) so I decided to take the liberty and check for them myself!

I wouldn't say they 'arouse me', I just find them cute.. 

bum wiggles arouse me lol!

[LoverEcho]

2 minutes ago, Someone quiet said:

So arousal is a role in both? 

A close friend has been getting into the community lately and has been wondering if it is normal (for both the little and the daddy) so I decided to take the liberty and check for them myself!

There really is no normal or abnormal with this. Some are aroused by seeing their partner in little gear and some littles are aroused by being in little gear. Then there are others who do not experience arousal from seeing or being in little gear. Both are valid, the only thing that is important is that each person in the dynamic is on the same page so that no one’s boundaries are violated. 

[Someone quiet]

12 minutes ago, LoverEcho said:

There really is no normal or abnormal with this. Some are aroused by seeing their partner in little gear and some littles are aroused by being in little gear. Then there are others who do not experience arousal from seeing or being in little gear. Both are valid, the only thing that is important is that each person in the dynamic is on the same page so that no one’s boundaries are violated. 

Oh ok, one more thing. Have you ever heard of a daddy or little being aroused by baby talking eachother/by baby talk when it pertains to being a little? 

I myself aren't into any of this as it's not my cup of tea but my friend seems somewhat distressed by their interests. They know nothing can be considered normal nor abnormal but it's more so a question of if it's within the realm of the kink.

This is what it seems like they're asking to me. A lot of people make bad assumptions about the DDLG community so they worry it might make them one of 'those' people. 

I myself have had worries similar to that.

[LoverEcho]

7 minutes ago, Someone quiet said:

Oh ok, one more thing. Have you ever heard of a daddy or little being aroused by baby talking eachother/by baby talk when it pertains to being a little? 

Yes, I’ve heard of people finding arousal in many different things as it pertains to DXlx. How far people take the kink, or just what they have interest in, varies greatly from individual to individual. The community will always be criticized because many do not understand it and won’t take the time to even try to, so I don’t think it’s helpful to worry about that. I know that’s easier said than done, but it is better once you can accept that and whatever we do or don’t engage in won’t change that. 
 

All of that is to say, your friend’s interest are within this kink. They can feel free to express themselves with consenting parties and shouldn’t feel weird about what they enjoy. To protect myself from others’ unsolicited opinions, I simply don’t mention that I am part of this community outside of spaces dedicated to it. Some people don’t wish to hide it, and that is perfectly valid too, it is just what I do personally. 

[Someone quiet]

2 hours ago, LoverEcho said:

Yes, I’ve heard of people finding arousal in many different things as it pertains to DXlx. How far people take the kink, or just what they have interest in, varies greatly from individual to individual. The community will always be criticized because many do not understand it and won’t take the time to even try to, so I don’t think it’s helpful to worry about that. I know that’s easier said than done, but it is better once you can accept that and whatever we do or don’t engage in won’t change that. 
 

All of that is to say, your friend’s interest are within this kink. They can feel free to express themselves with consenting parties and shouldn’t feel weird about what they enjoy. To protect myself from others’ unsolicited opinions, I simply don’t mention that I am part of this community outside of spaces dedicated to it. Some people don’t wish to hide it, and that is perfectly valid too, it is just what I do personally. 

Oh ok, any ideas of what they could use as little gear? A few of their ideas are kids underwear apparently/kids shorts, also they're with me rn! :3

[Andriel_Isilien]

I don't get aroused from wearing little gear stuff but I CAN get aroused while wearing them. I hope that made sense. Being little brings out my vulnerability which can be taken in both sexual and non sexual contexts. I am speaking from my own perspective given my sexuality; I'm all about context. People vary with their own quirks and kinks. There's nothing wrong with that at all. It's sweet when a Daddy or Mommy sees their little as more attractive while wearing or talking baby stuff. The same goes for the little feeling more "naughty" while in littlespace. Then there are some that prefer to keep the age regression completely separate from age-play. Both are totally ok.  The key is knowing boundaries and communicating expectations so as to limit someone getting hurt. This is why keeping the dynamic or kink 18+ is upheld so that everyone is safe. I don't call it gatekeeping. It's safekeeping. Basically, do what you will but do no harm. Have fun with every aspect of yourself. Having a partner that is loving it too with you makes it even better!

[LoverEcho]

1 hour ago, Someone quiet said:

Oh ok, any ideas of what they could use as little gear? A few of their ideas are kids underwear apparently/kids shorts, also they're with me rn! :3

The community is quite large so there’s a few companies that make gear in adult sizes. You can find onesies, pacifiers, bottles, bibs, small toys, sippy cups, and toddler outfits all designed in adult sizes for this community and the agere community. Of course, clothing and children sized items will end up being cheaper so they can always go with that if they find it comfortable. What little gear they look for will depend on what age they identify as/want to play as. 

[LeftyGuitar]

I do like ABDL and I find diapers to be fun to wear and sexy to wear. Using them, not so much. I also find it cute when littles wear little clothing.

[Andriel_Isilien]

18 hours ago, Someone quiet said:

Oh ok, any ideas of what they could use as little gear? A few of their ideas are kids underwear apparently/kids shorts, also they're with me rn! :3

I like to go thrift shopping for littlespace clothing or accessories like large night shirts, short dresses, cute flats, and they always have loads of stuffies waiting to be adopted 😊 I also go to Dollar Tree to try some baby products like sippy cups, bottles, tiny dinnerware, baby lotion, coloring books, etc. There I can try out some things to see if I like them without worrying about spending loads of money. I get overwhelmed with these online companies that sell little gear because I can't really see the items to try out and they can be pricey. But after trying a few cheaper options I am more confident in what my preferences are and then make some purchases for higher quality things. I'm just pickier that way. There is a thread on here dedicated to sharing all kinds of companies that sell Ddlg items. There are loads out there!

[Little Becca]

On 7/20/2022 at 5:15 PM, andrielisilien said:

I like to go thrift shopping for littlespace clothing or accessories like large night shirts, short dresses, cute flats, and they always have loads of stuffies waiting to be adopted 😊 I also go to Dollar Tree to try some baby products like sippy cups, bottles, tiny dinnerware, baby lotion, coloring books, etc. There I can try out some things to see if I like them without worrying about spending loads of money. I get overwhelmed with these online companies that sell little gear because I can't really see the items to try out and they can be pricey. But after trying a few cheaper options I am more confident in what my preferences are and then make some purchases for higher quality things. I'm just pickier that way. There is a thread on here dedicated to sharing all kinds of companies that sell Ddlg items. There are loads out there!

Oh, this is a wonderful idea!!!! You are very very smart!!!!!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[ohDaddyMy]

On 7/20/2022 at 6:27 AM, andrielisilien said:

I don't get aroused from wearing little gear stuff but I CAN get aroused while wearing them. I hope that made sense. Being little brings out my vulnerability which can be taken in both sexual and non sexual contexts. I am speaking from my own perspective given my sexuality; I'm all about context. People vary with their own quirks and kinks. There's nothing wrong with that at all. It's sweet when a Daddy or Mommy sees their little as more attractive while wearing or talking baby stuff. The same goes for the little feeling more "naughty" while in littlespace. Then there are some that prefer to keep the age regression completely separate from age-play. Both are totally ok.  The key is knowing boundaries and communicating expectations so as to limit someone getting hurt. This is why keeping the dynamic or kink 18+ is upheld so that everyone is safe. I don't call it gatekeeping. It's safekeeping. Basically, do what you will but do no harm. Have fun with every aspect of yourself. Having a partner that is loving it too with you makes it even better!

Well said. 
communication is key!