Little before you knew you were Little?

[Knickerbockers]

Not sure if this has already been a topic of discussion or not so feel free to ignore if it has been or if your not comfortable answering 🙂 

I had a lot indicators that I was a little before I knew the lifestyle/dynamic existed. A lot of it was part of my everyday life and personality and one day when I was researching online I read something on a blog about DDlg and was like “hey, this is me!” I did more research and it clicked.

Thinking there are a lot people out there who have the same experience and were little before they knew they were little, and some who came to realize it a different way. Either way, I thought it could be fun to share experiences and how or when you realized this was you! I understand it’s a personal topic so don’t answer if your not comfortable ❤️

[Andriel_Isilien]

I saw it as being childlike and always liking cute things. ABDL made me curious but didn't quite fit to what I felt I identified with. Then I saw in a passing comment Ddlg. I looked it up and fell down that rabbit hole. Never want to go back. 😁 The more I learned about being a little the more I felt a connection with who I am inside. It has helped me love myself better.

[DaddysMonkey]

……. Hi there ! ^-^ 

So , I was into the bdsm scene a long while before I got into Ddlg. I always felt out of place in strictly bdsm forums or communities , even if I liked a lot of the hardcore stuff that came with sadists and masochism I found myself wanting a lot more personal care and gentleness than I was finding. I also felt like I didn’t fit in with the old leather crowds that were so serious all the time , I wanted to joke around and play pranks and dress like a skater kid from the 90s… and a lot of Doms did NOT like my cheeky attitude. Being tired of feeling like a black sheep , I started researching more and didn’t really find much. I had researched everything up and down , I had found ABDL numerous times and it didn’t jive with me. (Shocking to look back and think I never ran across Ddlg while finding ABDL stuff).

During all my google researching , I figured I would try clicking on a YouTube video that popped up despite my despise for the community on there because the title sounded interesting. 
 

“The Fifteen Stone Babies.”

It was a BBC documentary I believe on ABDL and the Ddlg community … I fucking cried man. I felt like a fucking weirdo , a complete moron , and like I found myself all at the same time. Watching that documentary felt like all the pieces of my life fell together and who I was as a person finally made sense. I knew I was a middle and never went back , never could and never will.
 

For some people Ddlg and being any form of little is a type of role play , age play , kink  , or an on and off attribute they have but I think there are people who are kinda just made like this. I’m one of those people , even when I have to be a grown up , I’m still wearing my overalls and geeking out about Deku. 

Edited July 16, 2022 by DaddysMonkey

[Vampiress]

I've been into BDSM to varying degrees my entire adult life. I had heard of DD/lg along the way but didn't know much about it. What little I did see quickly made me form very negative assumptions about it (the ones we've all heard and seen) and I really hated it. I avoided it as much as I could until one day my curiosity got the better of me. I couldn't imagine why anyone would be into it, but I wanted to know why. The more research I did the more I realized how wrong I was and that I actually really identified personally with the lifestyle. It was like I had finally found something I never knew I was searching for or needed in my life.

[Knickerbockers]

6 hours ago, DaddysMonkey said:

……. Hi there ! ^-^ 

So , I was into the bdsm scene a long while before I got into Ddlg. I always felt out of place in strictly bdsm forums or communities , even if I liked a lot of the hardcore stuff that came with sadists and masochism I found myself wanting a lot more personal care and gentleness than I was finding. I also felt like I didn’t fit in with the old leather crowds that were so serious all the time , I wanted to joke around and play pranks and dress like a skater kid from the 90s… and a lot of Doms did NOT like my cheeky attitude. Being tired of feeling like a black sheep , I started researching more and didn’t really find much. I had researched everything up and down , I had found ABDL numerous times and it didn’t jive with me. (Shocking to look back and think I never ran across Ddlg while finding ABDL stuff).

During all my google researching , I figured I would try clicking on a YouTube video that popped up despite my despise for the community on there because the title sounded interesting. 
 

“The Fifteen Stone Babies.”

It was a BBC documentary I believe on ABDL and the Ddlg community … I fucking cried man. I felt like a fucking weirdo , a complete moron , and like I found myself all at the same time. Watching that documentary felt like all the pieces of my life fell together and who I was as a person finally made sense. I knew I was a middle and never went back , never could and never will.
 

For some people Ddlg and being any form of little is a type of role play , age play , kink  , or an on and off attribute they have but I think there are people who are kinda just made like this. I’m one of those people , even when I have to be a grown up , I’m still wearing my overalls and geeking out about Deku. 

I’ll have to watch that documentary! And I agree about some people just being made like this, I’m one of those people as well!

[LittleStarLight]

Even before I was into kink I was a submissive type person in my relationships, and I'm extremely monogamous. For me that means once I'm in a relationship I only have eyes for that person. I desire so strongly to serve them so  their life is easier and happier. 

On top of that, I have always had a childlike wonder of the world, and have a very optimistic view of people (to a fault at times). I love being playful and silly with people I know very well, and otherwise I'm quite shy. I loved my childhood dearly, and think back on it quite often. 

Well eventually, I was researching bdsm stuff and then came across a website mentioning ddlg, then specifically age regression. I was thinking WHAT IS THIS?! 😮 this might be me... 

I went down the rabbit hole 😊

What's neat is that age regression has led me to discover the softer side of my femininity. It's led me to realize that it's okay to have softer qualities, and it can be a good thing! But that's a whole other topic - just mentioned it because I think my mind has always wanted that but it never felt valid in our societies "boss babe" culture 😅...

 

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. 

[Knickerbockers]

32 minutes ago, LittleStarLight said:

Even before I was into kink I was a submissive type person in my relationships, and I'm extremely monogamous. For me that means once I'm in a relationship I only have eyes for that person. I desire so strongly to serve them so  their life is easier and happier. 

On top of that, I have always had a childlike wonder of the world, and have a very optimistic view of people (to a fault at times). I love being playful and silly with people I know very well, and otherwise I'm quite shy. I loved my childhood dearly, and think back on it quite often. 

Well eventually, I was researching bdsm stuff and then came across a website mentioning ddlg, then specifically age regression. I was thinking WHAT IS THIS?! 😮 this might be me... 

I went down the rabbit hole 😊

What's neat is that age regression has led me to discover the softer side of my femininity. It's led me to realize that it's okay to have softer qualities, and it can be a good thing! But that's a whole other topic - just mentioned it because I think my mind has always wanted that but it never felt valid in our societies "boss babe" culture 😅...

 

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. 

I love this. I’m naturally submissive as well so I can relate! I especially love the last bit on femininity. Would actually love to hear more of your thoughts and experiences on that topic!

[BrassyBabyGirl]

I recall coming across what a brat/babygirl is and being like OMG. I was looking for like a cute ball gag and ended up on a little space site lol. I have had traditional Dom/sub relationships and felt like something was lacking. It was that nurture of a Papa. I knew I was a little years before I found an actual Daddy. I needed something deeper than aftercare, permanent and weaved through out all of my life. Before being a little, BDSM was always in its own little compartment in my life. It was a hard realization that I needed a caregiver because I always cared for myself. It was a path I walked and I did so alone because I would not have been ready to accept what a Papa has to give. I also did not like toys and cute things till I got older and felt odd? Like yeah lots of adults like cute things but do they dissolve into giggles and huggies when they see giant bears at the store? Then I found my tribe lol.