I GOT A QUESTION!

[Ddandlittle]

Are all or most of you in DDLG relationships only or mostly just online? 

How does that work? 

I live with my baby girl, so I know if she's following the rules ,writing in her journal, and I can take care of her and nurture her needs like she needs.  I'm always available for her and she's always available for me. 

I'm just curious 

How does online fulfill your day? 

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy doesn't live with us yet but He only lives like 30 minutes away and stays over about 5 nights a week. I'll be honest neither of us could do online. Touch is so so so important to us that without it we just wouldn't feel connected.

[Ddandlittle]

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Edited July 8, 2022 by Ddandlittle

[Ddandlittle]

6 minutes ago, Little kaiya said:

My Daddy doesn't live with us yet but He only lives like 30 minutes away and stays over about 5 nights a week. I'll be honest neither of us could do online. Touch is so so so important to us that without it we just wouldn't feel connected.

We completely agree with you

[Baby Bat]

I live with my Daddy - we're married heehee Buuuuut... we met online and were long distance (two states away 😿) for a few years. We spent soooo much time on the phone together and that helped. Sometimes he drive down to see me. I didn't have a car and he was worried about my safety taking the train, so he preferred to come see me. 

Long distance doesn't work for everyone but it did ensure we really got to know each other first. 

[Little Becca]

My Daddy and I are online rn, but we are working on being all the way together.

For me, I had just been very open to anyone anywhere, if it is my real Daddy. Sometimes they live far away and you hafta be patient!!! (But also I know that can be hard!!!!!)

I’ve met some potential daddies irl, after a few weeks of talking, but from the onset, they didn’t feel right. Distance and physical location don’t matter sometimes!!!

[AngelwithoutWings]

My caretaker and I are online at the moment, we live a time zone apart and many states, but we make it work. We chat on discord throughout the day and the phone when we can. We both work full time jobs and have other obligations outside of that.

Still we make time for one another at the end of the day and weekends. We're still new but making plans to get together in person!

[Ddandlittle]

1 hour ago, Baby Bat said:

I live with my Daddy - we're married heehee Buuuuut... we met online and were long distance (two states away 😿) for a few years. We spent soooo much time on the phone together and that helped. Sometimes he drive down to see me. I didn't have a car and he was worried about my safety taking the train, so he preferred to come see me. 

Long distance doesn't work for everyone but it did ensure we really got to know each other first. 

Worked for me and my baby girl because we had to, but connected in the same house quickly!

[Ddandlittle]

1 hour ago, LittleLavenderGirl said:

My Daddy and I are online rn, but we are working on being all the way together.

For me, I had just been very open to anyone anywhere, if it is my real Daddy. Sometimes they live far away and you hafta be patient!!! (But also I know that can be hard!!!!!)

I’ve met some potential daddies irl, after a few weeks of talking, but from the onset, they didn’t feel right. Distance and physical location don’t matter sometimes!!!

Baby Girl says she agrees, "Distance don't matter".

[Baby Bat]

39 minutes ago, Ddandlittle said:

Baby Girl says she agrees, "Distance don't matter".

Hi Baby Girl! ::waves::

[Ddandlittle]

5 minutes ago, Baby Bat said:

Hi Baby Girl! ::waves::

She giggled 

[ZenDaddy]

I've come across a number of Littles who have had successful connections online or virtual, only.   I've made the comment to a few that, I've been spoiled with having in person relationships with my Littles, and even slaves as a Dom.. so it's I think natural that I would find it difficult to wrap around.  But then again, I've not had a successful long distance relationship in my past, so I'm definitely not one to criticize what works for others.  I CAN see the elimination of catching the drama or hurdles that DO come with an in person relationship.. maybe a couple of failed relationships would have benefitted from being remote..🤣

Big Kudos to those that are fulfilled and happy with their 'Virtual' partners.  🙌

[WigglyBun]

Was with my (now ex) partner/daddy about 6 years in person. Not sure I could do online or virtual after that honestly. I'm impressed by those who can do it, but don't think it would work out for me.

[Ddandlittle]

43 minutes ago, WigglyBun said:

Was with my (now ex) partner/daddy about 6 years in person. Not sure I could do online or virtual after that honestly. I'm impressed by those who can do it, but don't think it would work out for me.

Thank you for your honesty

[Lilprincess1990]

I did 10 years online long distance relationships. They worked for me but that was only because I was too afraid to try in person. I am now trying to be brave and looking to do things in person. It really depends on the couple and how things are set up. I.e my ex would be working while I slept and I would work while he slept so we had quiet a lot of time together. 

[Ddandlittle]

4 minutes ago, Lilprincess1990 said:

I did 10 years online long distance relationships. They worked for me but that was only because I was too afraid to try in person. I am now trying to be brave and looking to do things in person. It really depends on the couple and how things are set up. I.e my ex would be working while I slept and I would work while he slept so we had quiet a lot of time together. 

So for your relationship/Ddlg is detained by circumstances and of course your shyness...is that right?

[Lilprincess1990]

I was just a submissive then. I only recently learned I was a little. But yeah I was scared. there was also a lot of cases near me of people watching 50 shades of grey and thinking they knew all about BDSM and people were getting seriously hurt and even a few cases of accidental death.  and that just kinda stayed with me. but things like that. 

[Ddandlittle]

3 minutes ago, Lilprincess1990 said:

I was just a submissive then. I only recently learned I was a little. But yeah I was scared. there was also a lot of cases near me of people watching 50 shades of grey and thinking they knew all about BDSM and people were getting seriously hurt and even a few cases of accidental death.  and that just kinda stayed with me. but things like that. 

Stupid people without a clue doesn't sound fun at all. I truly am sorry for the bumbling idiots you've had to endure.

[Little Becca]

21 hours ago, Ddandlittle said:

Baby Girl says she agrees, "Distance don't matter".

Thank you, Baby Girl!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

And also, I am a little baby girl too!!! And also, I am a little princess and I think you are a little princess, too!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[Little Becca]

22 hours ago, AngelwithoutWings said:

My caretaker and I are online at the moment, we live a time zone apart and many states, but we make it work. We chat on discord throughout the day and the phone when we can. We both work full time jobs and have other obligations outside of that.

Still we make time for one another at the end of the day and weekends. We're still new but making plans to get together in person!

Angel, my Daddy and I are a time zone apart too!!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

I am very glad you are making this work. And also, I think that is very very nice!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[AngelwithoutWings]

2 minutes ago, LittleLavenderGirl said:

Angel, my Daddy and I are a time zone apart too!!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

I am very glad you are making this work. And also, I think that is very very nice!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Thank you Lavender! It's hard sometimes being an hour ahead of him but he always "tucks" me into bed, I tend to lose track of time so he helps with that!

I'm very glad you and your Daddy are working on being all the way together, hope it happens soon for you both 😊😊

[Little Becca]

4 hours ago, Lilprincess1990 said:

I did 10 years online long distance relationships. They worked for me but that was only because I was too afraid to try in person. I am now trying to be brave and looking to do things in person. It really depends on the couple and how things are set up. I.e my ex would be working while I slept and I would work while he slept so we had quiet a lot of time together. 

Oh Little Princess, that’s a long time to be online only. I am very happy you are being so brave!!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I was only only a sub, too. It’s hard to accept one’s littleness sometimes, but when you do, it is the bestest thing ever!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[Babygirl2019]

I wive with me daddy almost 4 years now cause my family was kicking me outs so i had to find a place to live fast so i moved in with him a little while after i met him at work. Me is trying to find little friends to talk to. Me was scared to tell my daddy at first but i finally told him dat i am a little.

[Ddandlittle]

2 minutes ago, Babygirl2019 said:

I wive with me daddy almost 4 years now cause my family was kicking me outs so i had to find a place to live fast so i moved in with him a little while after i met him at work. Me is trying to find little friends to talk to. Me was scared to tell my daddy at first but i finally told him dat i am a little.

I hope he accepts you just as you are never changing and thank you for your truth. Everyone's comments are helpful.

[Babygirl2019]

Thank u n he does me daddy is de best we just have to get our own place n a job now so that we can be ourselves.