Bad Daddy?

[HerDarkDaddy]

I have been working out of town for the past month and have only been home on the weekends, so I haven't had nearly as much time to spend with my little (DaddyJsPrincess) as either of us would like...which has kind of left me feeling a bit flat and inadequate.

 

So, yesterday while we were both at work, I began telling her a naughty story through texts. She has a bit of a mundane job with gives her lots of time to think and when she does, she tends to gravitate towards thinking about negative issues and gets to feeling really down...I wanted to keep her distracted.

 

The content of the story was something that we have touched on before as being exciting to both of us, but never really had an in-depth discussion about it. Each text I sent was meant to "test the waters" and her responses to them helped me decide where to go in the story...or at least, if it was okay to continue on the path I was on.

 

After I was finished...she said that the story was exciting but that it scared her. I don't know if she thought it was something that I was actually thinking about doing (which it wasn't) and I would NEVER make her do anything that she wasn't comfortable doing...I have told her this many times.

 

But...it got me thinking. If she even had an inkling that I was considering that...what does that say about me? If, despite me repeatedly telling her that I would never make her do anything that she wasn't comfortable doing...she still thought that I might...then, does she simply not believe me? Does she think I am a bad Daddy and just doesn't want to hurt my feelings by saying so? Or am I just overthinking this way too much???

 

I don't know...

[LolitasDaddy]

Talk to her about it. No one here can tell you what she is thinking. If you have concerns she took something wrong, explain yourself, and be very clear what your intent and motivations are.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Yeah you are overthinking lol.

I can watch a film that scares me, doesn't mean I think it's going to happen.

 

Also, sometimes I tell my daddy that he scares me. But it's the good scary. You don't get context with texts. You don't get facial expression, body language, tone of voice etc.

 

She is an adult. With an adult brain and intelligence I assume. Pretty sure if she actually thought you were gonna do something horrid, she would react rather more seriously than that.

[pigeon]

I do agree, you may be reading too much into it.

 

But hey, you know what? Your concern alone tells me you are not a bad daddy. You want to be her hero, make her feel as comfortable as she ever will. But I highly doubt she is scared of *you* in any way, probably just nervous about the taboo-ness of your fantasy. These things fade when you explore them more, I've found.

 

I specifically remember myself saying "I'm scared" in the middle of filthy dirty talk in the recent past, but looking back I meant it more as a signal for my daddy to steady on, and make sure not to push the fantasy too quickly... Sometimes we littles forget daddy isn't a mindreader! I sure as heck know I do!