How?

[Guest Curvyfrontierwoman]

How do I find a daddy in real life?

[Little kaiya]

The best advice I can offer is get out and get involved with the community. Meet people without expectations and take time to get to know people. I actually found my Daddy when I completely wasn't looking in a different community. We met and connected and the relationship evolved over time with no pressure. Edited June 7, 2022 by Little kaiya

[MasterPhotog]

Little kaiya has given you a million dollare advice that you can take to bank! 

Best of luck! 

[beanbean]

can't force thes things patience is needed. live your life don't do anything to different be your self it will happen for you

[AngelwithoutWings]

I agree with the above. I found my dom when I wasn't even looking, in fact was very much against it! He'll tell you it took some time of us really getting to be friends and talking before I let down my guard. Things really do happen when you least expect it.

[ZenDaddy]

Ditto and Ditto, lol.  So , I’m a big one for writing and goal setting / manifestation.  What are you looking for?  Do you know?  Have you had a Daddy before, and if so what worked and what didn’t?  These are some basic Q’s that many alone Littles or Daddy’s don’t really have a clear picture of even for themselves, let alone to communicate with a prospective partner.  Once you have a clue or even a more precise picture, Identify what are must haves or deal breakers and what are negotiable qualities or things not so important.  When you find those, then perhaps look to various venues or platforms (like was mentioned with getting involved in the community, etc..) , and when entering a forum online or meet up group in person,  say to yourself “If my Daddy is here, I want us to cross paths!”.. and see what happens. 

just one suggestion from me, of many great ideas you’ll find here from others.  But, maybe first things first?? Just a thought. 🌹