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[Seenthere]

Hello everyone, I am a 38 yr old determined to be a DD for girl that I care about. She has been going with lifestyle for 4+ years. I want to be a great DD for her so she can turn to me for anything. In short i need teachings and guidance. Thank you in advance

[WigglyBun]

I think it varies from person to person, so maybe ask her what is most important to her and use that as your foundation? 

I don't mean to be vague, but some prefer a gentle hand, others more strict, etc. So really it would be best to figure out what is most important to her and what you feel capable of doing and come to a compromise. I'm sure it will take some experimenting and adjustments, but be patient.

You can also read the forums here and see what others do or what works best for them and adjust those to your own situation. :]