Lost it all

[Asphalt_ruffneck420]

So I recently made a post about my own issues with my little, things haven’t gone great and my little is no longer my little and it really sux…

[WigglyBun]

I'm really sorry to hear that, I hope that you will be alright.

[Cebakes]

It is a horrible feeling. It’s like being punched in the stomach and then having your heart ripped out. You have to stay focused and move forward. I know it’s not the sort of thing that you can talk about with friends, so it’s best to keep your mind occupied with work and other things. While it sucks and this is very depressing, this will pass. This is a very small part of your lifetime. It’s also a good time to look back on your relationship and see if there are things that you may do different in the future. I don’t know if you belong to a gym, but times like this are a great time to join a gym, diet, or other ways to better yourself.  When you are ready, get back in the dating pool. You probably should not focus on trying to find a little right away. Maybe get to know a nice woman or two while keeping an eye out for a little.  In these types of situations you really have to have the mindset that you are one day closer to finding someone. Best of luck.

[Asphalt_ruffneck420]

It is a horrible feeling. It’s like being punched in the stomach and then having your heart ripped out. You have to stay focused and move forward. I know it’s not the sort of thing that you can talk about with friends, so it’s best to keep your mind occupied with work and other things. While it sucks and this is very depressing, this will pass. This is a very small part of your lifetime. It’s also a good time to look back on your relationship and see if there are things that you may do different in the future. I don’t know if you belong to a gym, but times like this are a great time to join a gym, diet, or other ways to better yourself. When you are ready, get back in the dating pool. You probably should not focus on trying to find a little right away. Maybe get to know a nice woman or two while keeping an eye out for a little. In these types of situations you really have to have the mindset that you are one day closer to finding someone. Best of luck.

[Asphalt_ruffneck420]

It definitely feels like you describe, I am most definitely not rushing in to anything. I lost my little because of my own insecurities and it projected on to her and ruined everything. Healing myself and fixing my problems is what I’m going to concentrate on

[Vampiress]

Cebakes gave wonderful advice! I am so sorry that things ended, I hope you can take the time to work on healing and on self-care. This is an important time to reconnect with yourself, work on issues, and figure out what you want going forward.

[DaddyDomination]

Rejection is never fun. Doesn't matter what side you're on. I try to learn from mistakes, and not repeat them. If things don't work out I never rush to get into a new relationship. I find the best times are experienced while not even looking. Beware those suddenly confessing their undying love for you soon as you break up, or are in a new relationship as well. Seems they always come out of the wood work at those times. 

[beanbean]

sdaly it happens i know you dont want to hear anything like this right now,the silver linnings are that just becuase things are bad now does not mean they have to stay bad.and your best days just might have your besst day ahead of you