Dominant Little sorry not sorry

[Satan]

[PennyGoodfellow]

Absolutely! 

[baby_k]

Ooohh, so agree with this.

 

I don't get why 'little' would automatically mean some soft crybaby sub. Nor why being ( more of a ) dom would mean one likes caregiving.

 

Not a full dom little here and still:

I'm a little, baby ME, but I also like to call the shots ( outside bedroom at least that is )

[BrassyBabyGirl]

 

The dynamics people choose to make and roles they take on are all different. We are not meant to be some cookie cutter soap opera steam smut romance novel off of wattpad.

Sorry not sorry about it.

Yup. It pains me when people feel they have to be a certain kind of way to fit a definition. Like "how do I be a little etc". It is up to the individual. I hate it when people assume because you are a little, in big girl life you are docile and need to be cared for. Ummm no, Boss biaaattcchhhhh here ty. I do and live as I please, on my own dime and on my own terms. Daddy loves me for it. For me, it adds to the complexity of being a little. I do not see it as much on this forum as I have on another, but I am glad when I see people addressing what in reality, are stereotypes. PREACH.

[Fuego]

Who cares about labels, just be yourself. I have the subbyiest sub in the world and I'm Dom asf, but sometimes she tells me what's up, and I listen.

 

Be true to yourself and embrace who you are, and as far as relationships, they need to be 50/50 anyways, labels be damned.

[Plum]

YES. 100% this.

I get so SO sick of people assuming that being little automatically means that you absolutely have to be the subbiest lil' thing. Like... no. Maybe I am a small tyrant?

But seriously, I completely agree with you. Being little isn't the same thing as being submissive. Being a dominant little shouldn't just be written off as "oh, you just haven't been whipped into shape yet!" or whatever. I'm sorry people have tried that with you. That's seriously icky and immature of the people on the other end of this for sure. It's important to recognize and remember that there is a difference. Thank you for pointing it out!
 

[ellie:)]

I really like your post! I totally agree 

[Kitten&Spice]

I am glad that you have brought this up! It is something not many people address or talk about! You always have your soft Doms, hard Doms, etc but people outside the dom spectrum don’t have the luxury often to describe their little types (outside of age).

 

I myself am more of a dominant little towards people who are of a younger little space or I see need a bit of care! I always felt bad when I saw other littles without that bit of protection and would jump right in! I was on a lot of Kik groups trying my best to make every little comfortable, happy, and felt taken care of even if that meant I had to be labeled as the brat or trouble maker of the groups!!

 

Tried to be a fill in dom for so many littles and couldn’t do it!