Question for daddies

[The ChildLike Empress]

My daddy abandoned me and I'm not sure what happened I don't know if I did something wrong he stopped talking to me one day last week but on valentine's day I messaged him again told him happy valentine's day and he messaged back qnd told me his phone had been broken and he'd been waiting for me to text cause he needed my number again and he was so happy said he'd been in a wreck we were back to normal again for a few days then he tells me me has trouble concentrating I asked him to see a doctor he told me he would he said they wanted to keep him and no more texts next day he says more tests and nothing for 8 hours then I'm at home going to bed this is at 5pm and he's ignored all the messages I've sent while replying as in whatever I mention send ask he ignored and sent what I've said as the reply the next morning after I've asked if he was tired of me he says you don't understand and well talk tonight I said I don't understand you won't talk to me .....I never heard from him again he just left me standing there confused after 3 days of seriously worrying about him and his well being he disappeared I just wanted to know what was going on it felt to me he was only messaging to put off longer no details I was left there to worry first about him then about what I did wrong I can't stop crying I've cried everyday since and the most hardest part is I honestly still feel like he should he here to comfort me ...what did I do wrong I was always a good girl he never complained about me before what did I do please someone explain it to me so I can understand and move on

[Little kaiya]

You didn't do anything wrong. He decided to move on from the relationship. Don't blame yourself, take time to heal the find someone that cares.

[MasterPhotog]

Hello Empress, sorry that your Daddy abandoned you. 

 

As Little kaiya said, you didn't do anything wrong, therefore, no need to blame yourself. 

 

Sometimes people simply move on without any of the other person's fault or telling why they want to do that.
Please take care of yourself and continue to stay strong and don't blame yourself. 

[Bunnyht]

I don't think you should feel guilty, I honestly don't think you've done anything wrong. Maybe he has a lot of problems and didn't know how to handle things. It is normal that you feel this way but remember that you are very special and keep going, one step at a time.

 

 

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[carebearslover101]

hi hi! you didnt do anything wrong! i cant know his reasoning but take this time to heal, heck eat ten tubs of ice cream or something just find something to make you happy in this not so happy time        

[Guest SIFUTHEWOLF]

(BIG HUGS) Your Daddy was the one that did something wrong, not you. I'm sorry you had this painful experience, check out the link in my about me section, it may help you in thee future not to be hurt again.

[Harlee-qwinnie]

(BIG HUGS) Your Daddy was the one that did something wrong, not you. I'm sorry you had this painful experience, check out the link in my about me section, it may help you in thee future not to be hurt again.

 

I clicked on your link and read the article. It is well written, very descriptive of types, and has sound information. Thank you for sharing with the community.

~Harlee

[Andriel_Isilien]

I'm so sorry!!!   I too was abandoned by my partner (daddy/dom) earlier this year and I was asking myself those same questions. He kept saying I did nothing wrong but he lied and broke so many promises behind my back. I did my best for years to keep the peace, make him happy, and do everything I thought was right. It doesn't make sense no matter how much I wrestle it in my head. I am choosing to see it as he was having his own issues with his identity (internal battles) and I was just collateral damage. This doesn't make it ok in the least but I can accept what happened. It sucks and the most horrible thing for a little to go through! Sending you hugs!          Take this time to care for yourself, put your needs first, seek help, and take things at your pace. You don't deserve this; nobody does. I hope you have support that you can lean on during this difficult time and get into a healthy head space.