Advice would be appreciated

[Little_Vixi]

So I'm a little in a LDR relationship with my Daddy and as a little I really like structure, nothing extreme but my Daddy has set rules for me like a chore chart that I have to send pictures of every night but lately I was feeling mischievous and I broke some bigger rules and admitted to breaking them and I haven't been sending pictures of my chore chart. For the past two days he keeps teasing me, saying he'll give me funishment but he does nothing. I don't like being a brat and I don't want to continue disobeying but it makes me sad when he doesn't do anything about my misbehavior it makes me feel forgotten. Even if it isn't a funishment I like order and I like it when my Daddy expects the rules to be followed.

Does anyone know how I can bring this up to him? I'm not very good with words.

Thank you

[PapaGrayWolf]

Show this topic to him, what you wrote.

[SmolAetherr]

you seem to be fine with words, also you didn mention if there were any agreed punishments, if you dont have any in place what can he do exactly?

[Little_Vixi]

We do have agreed punishments, such as lines, time out or early bedtime. I just want to bring it up in a way that I don't offend him, he isn't easily offended but I tend to overthink things.

[SmolAetherr]

honestly, and i know this is hard but the best way would be to ask him directly like "i've been wondering if you are doing okay, i've done some things recently that most definitely warranted a punishment but you havent given me any, is everything okay?"

 

see what he says, could be that he is nervous about giving punishments and needs the encouragement that its okay, or maybe he isnt able/willing to stick to the punishments sometimes something seems good on paper but doesent shape up well in practice, just be direct and reassuring and ensure that you are using language that shows you care about him that you really want this and want to know what is stopping him from doing it

Edited February 3, 2022 by SmolAetherr