Being big when you're a little

[Peach121]

I'm *very* new here, but this is something I'd love to talk about, and hear other littles thoughts/experiences on.

 

I'm a mum to a one year old (actual biological mum). Everyday stresses of running a home, looking after her, and many other things (which I won't bore you with as they're personal issues) really get me down. Having to cope with adult life is actually incredibly tough for me. When my Daddy is around I actually find it much easier to deal with these things. For a start, he helps me a lot, for example he does most of the cooking. I've found that having someone around to embrace my little personality and take care of me, actually makes me feel much stronger in myself and makes me more able to cope with being big.

 

I guess I've been thinking that this is kind of strange, as usually Daddies bring out more of their littles little side, or so I thought? Don't get me wrong, I get super cuddly and lovey dovey with him, and like to snuggle in bed, pig out on crisps, do some gaming or whatever. But I guess what I'm trying to say is that, embracing and nurturing my little side, actually helps me when I have to be big - which right now, is the vast majority of the time!

[Princess-P]

I know exactly what your talking about and its really very normal. I know what its like being a mom and having responsibilities like running a house, kids, working, and regular day to day adult life.

 

The way your feeling about your Daddy making you stronger is exactly what he's supposed to do. Having a Daddy doesn't mean he's only there for your little side, a good Daddy makes your whole life better, big or small, by supporting you and helping you grow. Showing you what your capable of no matter what the circumstances are. He's there to let you know you can do all these things on your own because you are strong and capable, but that you also don't have to because he is THERE for you.

 

And I'm not sure if you are, since it doesn't say in your post really, but if you find yourself struggling to slip completely into little space don't worry too much about it. I struggled for a little while after my daughter was born but it got easier to find time for myself and for me and my (at the time) Daddy.

 

It sounds to me like he's being a great Daddy for you, a great partner really, and your very lucky to have someone that can make you feel the way you do.

[Peach121]

I've never really had a little space, although I'm new to ddlg. I kind of have a permanent little space, like I'm constantly a bit childish and immature, but don't seem to go into it as deeply as others do. Thanks for your reply, reassuring to know you're the same

[Princess-P]

Its also perfectly fine to not have a little space, just thought I'd toss that in there. For me I go full blown 4 year old lol.

 

Your definitely normal in feelimg the way you do, so keep it up, sounds like your doing great

[Peach121]

Haha, I'm just at a constant level of somewhere in between adult and little, I can't switch it off XD