i feel like im fighting my little

[littlegirlxoxoxo]

im so confused. i am in love with this boy who lives very far away and we cant see eachother that much. he doesnt know im a little and i dont think he would understand. my ex did and was able to cater to it as he was a cg but he also damaged it a lot and i havent rlly felt comfortable in my little space since (july) and i really miss it. 

 

now theres this boy at school who, idk if he does it on purpose, but always manages to put me in my little space, however ik he talks to a lot of girls and ive talked to him and hes flirty but if someone asks, theres nothing going on between us. so i think hes a player, my big self tells me to stay away, bc i feel like he would hurt me. however the little in me cant seem to stay away, even when he doesnt show any interest in me. i just want a cg again and im missing it sm im fighting my little about a boy who clearly doesnt like me like that and will probs hurt me.

 

but theres also the fact the other boy who lives far is amazing, i love him sm but i cant tell him abt the whole ddlg thing bc i think it will freak him out and it will make everything awkward.

 

why do i feel like this?? am i a bad person?? what do i do???

 

Edited January 5, 2022 by littlegirlxoxoxo

[ellie:)]

Hi!  I would like to start by saying that there is more than one way to do things in life. You asked for advice and I’d like to share what I would do if I were you. It might not be accurate to you or your situation and I’m far from being a pro at relationships.

 

That being said, I think your emotions are all valid and figuring out how you’re feeling is a great start. Maybe you can figure out what you want in a relationship and what are your needs?  It seems important for you to be able to express your little side with a partner. Would it be a deal breaker if you couldn’t?  Why do you want to be in a relationship? How does your past relationship affect you now? You could ask yourself those kinds of questions to try to understand your situation better.  It might be really hard. Sometimes, taking a break helps to put things in perspective. 

 

I hope your situation will improve soon

[littlegirlxoxoxo]

Hi!  I would like to start by saying that there is more than one way to do things in life. You asked for advice and I’d like to share what I would do if I were you. It might not be accurate to you or your situation and I’m far from being a pro at relationships.

 

That being said, I think your emotions are all valid and figuring out how you’re feeling is a great start. Maybe you can figure out what you want in a relationship and what are your needs?  It seems important for you to be able to express your little side with a partner. Would it be a deal breaker if you couldn’t?  Why do you want to be in a relationship? How does your past relationship affect you now? You could ask yourself those kinds of questions to try to understand your situation better.  It might be really hard. Sometimes, taking a break helps to put things in perspective. 

 

I hope your situation will improve soon

thank you! ill definitely think about your advice

[DaddyDomination]

Usually your first instinct is the right one. Those that would call Me a player don't pay attention. I do what I want with who I want. There's no guess work with Me. If I want someone I tell them straight up. If I am in a committed relationship D/s or Not I abide by the contract we both agree too. If I am single I go back to doing what I want with who I want. 

 

Listen to your gut. It won't lie to you like your heart will. 

[Guest UnicornPuff]

Listen to your Big instincts... The one guy is probably a player. If the LDR guy is vanilla, tell him what you want. You would do the same with a CG anyway. It might be a bit of a shock for him, so give him time. The conflicting feelings do not make you a bad person... They make you human.