Little FinDom/me?

[_Curious_Mind_]

[Little kaiya]

Stuff doesn't really do it for me, it's all about love, cuddles and quality time together.

[Vampiress]

Well there are little dommes, so I imagine this thing probably exists but I don't know of any. I don't have a personal curiosity about this because I'm not dominant in the slightest. I am sure there is some kind of market for it if you're interested in trying, though.

[_Curious_Mind_]

This all stemmed from a prior life venture a few years ago. And a recent reminder of that time. And well I get all my attention and cuddles and spoiling. But the thought is quite intriguing. To be a sub, yet have the power to control another and get a few extra stuffies and fuzzy blankets in the process. Maybe a doll (or 5...)

[Guest LittleElizabethBun]

...redacted... Edited November 19, 2021 by LittleElizabethBun

[daddymind]

My babs and I enjoy findom play occasionally. She knows I have a hopeless weakness for brattiness and she will use that to demand certain things, whether it be money or gifts.

 

Instead of "Daddy, please may I have XYZ?" she is more likely to say "Daddy! Gimme XYZ" and maybe a "NOW, dummy!" thrown in for good measure. Part of the play is me negotiating with her if she gets too demanding, but I'll always refer to her as Princess or "my angel" and I never punish her for her brattiness (she doesn't seek punishment like a typical brat in this dynamic - she just wants her way). I'm the kind of daddy who is more likely to be scared of displeasing Princess than she is of being too aggressive or demanding. I love the walking on eggshells thing when negotiating, trying to keep her from throwing a tantrum or getting angry and maybe punishing me (increased chastity time, sweaty feet shoved in my face, ball busting...). I also love the fact that the more I spoil her, the more she expects over time, which pushes me to make more income (she's like my little boss cracking the whip lol). It's all play, but it's very involved play (esp. with money being at stake) and not for the faint hearted.

 

I know there are other guys like me out there who enjoy the demanding nature of findom, but from more of a bratty, entitled Princess type domme. There's some overlap with dynamics such as sugar daddy/baby and other forms of domination such as orgasm control, foot worship etc. But I guess with the little version it's about the attitude (or bratitude) - more sassiness, pouting, foot stomping, using words like daddy, princess and little insults like dummy, poo-brain, duh etc.

 

I think if you put something out there along those lines, you'd eventually get the right attention.

Edited October 28, 2021 by daddymind

[_Curious_Mind_]

Always consensual, Bun! I too can relate if a fraction to your feelings as I dealt with 6 years of abuse from 18 years of age. So, consent is a must for me in all things.

 

And thank you daddymind for the insight from the Big perspective! Very much appreciated. Makes things a tad clearer for sure. Because from my bit of digging most of the Princesses seem to be "Tweens/Teens" instead of "Littles/Middles". Throw are the word Loser ALOT. Then there are the Dom/me's.

 

Guess I am wondering how to go about this is I decide to. As I love my attention and affection from My Daddy. But the Brat in me wants all the attention and gifts and moneys just because, well I want it. *shrugs* no other real reason. If it is consentually given because they want to give me that just because I want it I don't see any harm.