Long distance DDLG

[RubbaDubDaddy]

How to deal with a little that isn't comfy taking pics to send to her Daddy?

[dre4myang3l]

if they're not comfortable, don't force them. earn their trust

[RubbaDubDaddy]

Thank you, yes I understand that, never force something like that. That would have disastrous affect.

[Guest mrfahrenheit451]

if they're not comfortable, don't force them. earn their trust

Yeah, this is the only answer to that.

[MissPattch]

Doesn't need dealing with. If its a boundary for her, you respect it and stop asking.

[Little kaiya]

There is a really critical piece of information missing, why is she not comfortable? Is your relationship very new? Did she have bad previous experiences? Not comfortable with technology? Body or self esteem issues?

 

If she is comfortable then start by having that conversation.

[RubbaDubDaddy]

I apologise I did not word my topic correctly. I was trying to ask what alternatives to use or try with a little that does not like to do pictures. An for the above person, Don't read into topics an automatically think that there is something wrong, there is multiple meanings for the two words "deal with" not all of them mean in a bad or wrong way.

[Guest mrfahrenheit451]

Sure, you can say deal with in a way that isn't negative. 
But words matter, and I suggest when regarding another person that you want to give care to, break out a new word besides "deal with". 
Especially when requesting advice from a broader audience. 

And alternatives, 

Answer is still the same. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. 

If you don't like it, you can ask for a voice call.
Talking is more important than pictures anyway.
Or have her send you a colored picture.
Stuffy lineup.
Or figure out a different way to interact with her other than pictures. 

Its her boundary to make, and your boundary to respect.

Edited October 27, 2021 by mrfahrenheit451