A rant. Hope someone can relate.

[Guest Curiousowl2097]

Okay i gotta get this off my chest somewhere!

I refuse to believe, that out of billions of people in this world i will NEVER find a daddy who would love me for who i am! I explicitly and simply refuse to kill my optimism and my energy over it. But...why the hell do people make that hard to believe sometimes?! Why????!!!! I pour my heart out over my personal messages and sometimes the other person can only reply with...yes...no..yes..maybe. hello? Rude! Also...getting attatched to someone and then being ghosted sucks too, but i REFUSE these circumstances to leech my energy over finding someone i can love and cherish and literally devote my heart and soul to! I refuse! Yes! People make it hard sometimes but i dont believe i'll find the person i lov by covering myself in walls and protecting myself by one worded conversations. It astounds me sometimes that how something as simple as love can be so complicated and hard? Like connecting with another homosapien can take a toll on your mental health? That seems like a wild f-ing concept. Also illogical. I don't pursue love and relationships like a hound but i do believe in giving it my best so that later on i have no regrets but people just seem to be interested in pushing my buttons and killing my enthusiasm over the smallest of things. It's not a bad thing to be excited over everything! It's not a bad thing to look at the world through a kid's eyes and be excited to meet new people and get to know them and have long coversations with them. So...yea..i refuse to let cowards, buttfaces and people who are simply too scared for a real connection to curb or kill or supress my optimism and enthusiasm for life.

Peace out.

[bbubbless]

Oh boi, 

 

As I was reading this, I was like yup, yup and again; yup! I so freaking relate to pouring your heart and soul out for any type of relationship, whether that's romantic or simply a friendship. I totally understand and can relate to your frustrations and it definitely sucks, like it sucks big butts. Whenever I find myself falling out of a relationship with a person for whatever reason, I always look at what happened, how I reacted and what I could have learnt from that relationship. As cheesy as it sounds, you're going to come across a lot of these people in your life that teach you a lesson, in some weird way? I do wholeheartedly believe that there is someone destined to be with you and for you. There will definitely be someone who will love and cherish you but those things cannot be rushed. As you said it cannot get in the way of your optimism and enthusiasm but it can be hard at times, for sure! 

 

If you notice that this process takes a toll on your mental health and its frustrating you to no freaking end, take a breather. Life is so much more than trying to find the right person for you. Let those buttfaces be buttfaces and you invest your time and energy in you! 

 

- Bubbless 

[TwistedColors]

I wish I had your optimism.

 

(Own mini rant in coming)

 

I gave up actively looking for someone and left the forum coz the ones who said they were serious did the same thing as you describe. Then when different ppl were like "I'm casual and just want fun" they do a surprised pikachu face when you tell them they can't call you theirs, give you pet names, or you're not their pet. Like what's not clicking??? If you aren't serious you can't expect someone to be like "yeah, im yours" and if you're serious you can't expect someone to be like "you treat me like an afterthought, lets be a couple!"

 

It is weird to me how people expect a relationship to just kind of.... Spring into existence?

 

With all that being said, I did find a few daddies who did take it seriously, and treated it with thr respect it deserved, but we just didn't mesh. Also tried to be a caregiver bit thats not for me.

 

Now I'm back and just looking for friends. If I find someone I'll be extra surprised. I know exactly what I want and I think I'm too picky XD

Edited October 27, 2021 by LokiTehAdorableFox

[Kimz]

I just read this and it gave me a little hope! I hate broken promises the most! That adds salt to the wound when you’ve been ghosted ! The worst type of ghosting is from a Daddy who you thought was your friend! I just feel like they should at least have the guts to say goodbye instead of letting us wonder!