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[sunflowerxprincess]

My boyfriend went through my phone and saw this forum in my tabs.

He left. I feel sad. I don’t know what to do. I hurt him a lot and I feel like a bad person.

[Little kaiya]

In you other post you indicated you were unhappy but didn't want to leave him because he'd kill himself. If he left over seeing this forum it speaks to probably an incompatibility. It sounds like you are now both free to find someone who is compatible with your desires and needs.

[Guest LittleElizabethBun]

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[sammightstay]

You may feel bad, but I believe you have no reason to. DDLG isn't a dirty secret. It's not something you should have to feel ashamed of or bad for liking. I also understand wanting to keep it a secret, because not everyone gets it. The fact that your boyfriend used it as ammunition to leave you speaks volume of his character and your incompatibility with him. In a healthy relationship he should have tried to understand this part of your life while having the maturity to understand why you might have kept it from him. If it's not something that he can relate to, then that's fair enough too. Leaving you like that tells me he's probably wanted to leave for a while and was looking for an excuse. Sorry, if that's not what you want to hear. Just me being honest. Either way, I feel you're definitely better off without him.