Ddlg questions

[Mortimos]

So I started a relationship with a girl and she came out to me a little while ago that she was extremely submissive and into ddlg. After doing some research into it I feel as though it's something that also appeals to me. However there's one big thing that's a huge no for me, diapers. Does this auto exclude me from being into ddlg?

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

It's only an issue if she wears them. We are not all the same. I am my daddys submissive and his little girl. I have literally no interest in diapers, age play, stuffies, pacifiers, sippy cups etc.

You need to find out what she's into, what she's happy compromising with (and what you are happy compromising with too of course), and if you are compatible.

[Princess-P]

Everyone is different, being in the DDlg dynamic doesn't mean you HAVE to do anything specific. All littles like different things when they feel little and all Daddys/Mommy's have different rules or techniques. I don't wear diapers and that makes me no less a little.

 

Read up a little more in the forum and talk to your partner. Establish limits and make your relationship however you want. Being little or a caregiver isn't something to roll play at its just who you are, go with what feels natural to you both.

[Littlest_Lushie]

You disliking diapers does NOT exclude you from the DDlg dynamic at all. I would highly recommend that you and this girl either look online together or have her send you links to what she is interested in specifically.

 

When I met my Daddy and began to tell him about what I'm into, I told him to NOT go to google right away. I wanted to explain to him how I see DDlg and what I'm into. The internet can be overwhelming and show people who are into other things- which can be off putting if its not something you'd be into. So, I really recommend that you turn to her to give you ideas of whats shes into. Instead of surfing the internet, and hoping shes not into something you saw. 

[Princess-P]

I so agree with lil_dohvakiin the internet is really overwhelming. You don't have to like everything everyone else likes to fall into one dynamic or the other. I wish I could like that post 10000000000 times lol.

[mmuis1966]

People are quick and happy to label things. Pet, sub, Princess, brat are only a few of the descriptions you will come across in the DDlg lifestyle. Anyway, nobody fits a certain single description completely. I myself wish to think that our characters fluctuate between our moods. So that means one day the character will fit to a certain stereotype better than another day. Don't let yourself be intimidated by these characters, be inspired instead! Cherry pick the elements YOU are attracted to. Live the life as YOU think is DDlg suitable that fits into YOUR life. Enjoy it and have fun. Don't be afraid not to fit in a certain box.