Why is it hard..

[Wittle_moon_babygirl]

Why is it so hard trying to find who you truly are.. I'm a little, but also a dom/me while h is hard cause I'm a demi girl so I'm feminine. But also I feel masculine sometimes to. So I'm mommy, but also Dada, and I'm baby girl, but also buba and its hard to find anyone who understands..

 

Any advice on truly finding who you are?

[Little kaiya]

As someone who is genderfluid, a man and a woman, and also a little, boy and girl, I can empathize. I cant say I understand your situation exactly as everyone's experiences are different but I have spent 43 years on my gender journey and it continues to evolve every day.

 

The best advice I can offer is take things one day at a time and one experience at a time. Try to remain open minded to your experiences and put self judgment to the side.

[Guest LittleElizabethBun]

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[peachprince]

As a femme trans man switch, i totally get this! It took a lot of time and exploration and talks with my peers and partners to understand what i truely want and how to express myself, and im still learning every day!

Honestly, give it time and talk to others. I had a good queer community and some awesome kink friends i could talk to even if it was just venting about my frustrations with myself and it really helped a lot!