Vent: Frustrating when explaining what DD/lg is

[KellyJ]

Has anyone else just gotten tired or frustrated when trying to explain what your relationship is? I've been single for over a year and looking for a new relationship. When getting to know the guys (after several dates) the sex questions and the ex questions tend to pop up.

 

I'm an open person, but I hold the details back. And then the "Wait, you act like a kid? Why? And you only called him 'daddy' during sex, right?" But when I explain that it eventually got to me calling him Daddy all the time, I get "So you can call me daddy now" or "I'll be your daddy." And I just want to punch them in the throat.

 

No matter how many times I try to explain that it is after a deep trust is built up, that Daddy happens....it goes straight to sex for them. I'm ready to just call it quits looking for a relationship for a while. Because even when I DONT talk about DD/lg, sex pops up by date 3 and if I don't give it up, I'm a b!$&*. If I do, I don't get a call back. Ugh! Boys are stupid.

 

Any suggestions?

[mmuis1966]

I agree though. The title Daddy must me earned. Also I'm giving the title Princess to the one that is coming close to my heart. Even as simple as it is saying this, I think the outsiders don't always value what is in those words.

[Guest DaddyJoe]

Has anyone else just gotten tired or frustrated when trying to explain what your relationship is? I've been single for over a year and looking for a new relationship. When getting to know the guys (after several dates) the sex questions and the ex questions tend to pop up.

 

I'm an open person, but I hold the details back. And then the "Wait, you act like a kid? Why? And you only called him 'daddy' during sex, right?" But when I explain that it eventually got to me calling him Daddy all the time, I get "So you can call me daddy now" or "I'll be your daddy." And I just want to punch them in the throat.

 

No matter how many times I try to explain that it is after a deep trust is built up, that Daddy happens....it goes straight to sex for them. I'm ready to just call it quits looking for a relationship for a while. Because even when I DONT talk about DD/lg, sex pops up by date 3 and if I don't give it up, I'm a b!$&*. If I do, I don't get a call back. Ugh! Boys are stupid.

 

Any suggestions?

Find better men. I find that if sex topics turn up early or even at all, they're just looking to hook up. If you know someone on a deeper level that takes time; they may be open to this. After all if you let parts of your childlike side out over time, they will find it endearing. If a guy sticks around that long, you will both conform to each other. Relationships are about growing. Those boy you spoke with sound immature.

[Guest AvatarMew]

I know how you feel... I've only tole 4 people bout being  daddy and they didn't take it well...

[Babyscarlett83]

No one knows the way our relationship is, that way I never have to explain, behind closed doors and when we are out just the two of us, I'm his little girl but to everyone else we are just a normal couple, no explanation needed. Simple.