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[DollDirector]

hello ,

 

so these are problems from outside , and he finds it difficult to switch off from them .

 

seems you are doing a lot already . perhaps he needs being reminded that it's on him , solving this . by any means ranging from fighting back to just fleeing ( yes , this can also be a sensible way to deal with some problems ), to getting third party help .

[RebelKing]

You should talk to him! As much as you are Daddy and Little, you are also both adults, tell him that you're there for him, ask if there is anything you can do.

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[DarkWingDuck]

Honesty Communications should be open between both parties in the dynamic, you should be able to without fear to talk to your daddy about any and all things like wise so should he to you.  We all have bad days but its all in how we chose to vent... Perhaps he needs to find an outlet to let his frustrations out so that they don't come out on you... I personally enjoy video games... allows me an open area to vent into so that nothing comes back on my little...  I do with you luck when you talk to yours, but honestly you shouldn't need luck you should just be comfortable enough with him/her that you are able to talk to them freely... and i completely understand getting tired and drained on the day to day again we all have those days...   I do hope this helps! And have a great day!

[Faeriepaw]

Okay, I mean no harm when I say this but lately on many sites I see so many posts that imply a little is just automatically supposed to be like a slave that just puts up with anything even if it makes them miserable to please a man just bc they call them daddy. Just because you're in a 24/7 kind of dynamic doesn't mean you put up with something at the expense of yourself and wellbeing. Talk to him about how he makes you feel. Well you said you were so I hope it goes well.

 

I say this bc you said "is it a situation where I just suck it up because it's the lifestyle" no, you should never feel bad or be miserable bc "that's just how this is" if it was a "normal" relationship we would never accept that, and this is no different. I'm sure if you talk about it together you can figure out a solution, because honestly him stomping around and fussing isn't very productive lol and as you said you're a person with responsibilities too. It's not up to only you.

 

I hope this doesn't come across too coarse it just hurts my heart anytime I see hints that submissives and littles and pets thinking they have less autonomy or choice. You went into this dynamic of your own will, so it should be good to you. But I do understand wanting to be good and please your partner. But remember you are your own person.

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