Tomboy things.

[DaddysMonkey]

…… Hi. *waves*

 

I believe that pretty much everything in life in on a spectrum. So , even with humans there is a little bit of masculine and feminine in all of us. Even with the far end of spectrums there is little variables that make people teeter totter on the line of this and that. Hyper feminine girls play video games now a days which was seen as a tomboy thing to do in the past , girls will wear dresses while building things , and tomboys will have the best eyebrows and eyeliner so sharp it will cut you with sparkling blinding , highlighter on their cheekbones.

 

While everything being on a spectrum like this , and you can have hyper girly girls doing more boyish things and vice versa … there seems to still be this stigma or preference around what a feminine / female little should act or be like.

 

I know I know I know. I’ve preached it enough that nobody needs to tell me “all littles are different , nobody is the same.” Even though this is the case , it doesn’t change the ever present preference … does it ? Super thin , long hair , extremely girly and well mannered that bends to the will of others. Obviously not every Caregiver prefers this , which leads to :

 

Caregivers ; What are some more tomboyish things you find endearing or cute about littles ? What are some gross / not so girly habits your little has or wouldn’t mind if your future little does ? Why do you believe there is a stigma around specific types of littles that are “more desired” that others ?

 

Littles ; Sup buttlickers. What are some things you do that you normally hide from caregivers so they don’t think you’re gross ? Some things you don’t hide or care about ? What are some things you do as a tomboy that you wouldn’t change for a partner ? What are some things you’ve been told “littles don’t do” but you stick your middle finger up and do anyways ?

 

 

I’m here already so I’ll go first , especially since I’m the king of being gross.

 

I’ve talked about it quite a lot so I’m sure some of you can guess one of my favorite activities…. Picking my mother fuckin nose 8) No , I don’t eat my boogers anymore. I gladly wipe them on a shirt or tissue paper. There’s just nothing more satisfying than having a solid boogie in your nose that you can’t blow out and you just dig that bitch out then *deeeep breath* you can just function normal again. Especially when you get a real good booger that’s stringy and it feels like you’re pulling part of your brain out ! *chefs kiss*.

 

Swearing. I’ve had SO many caregivers try to tell me to stop swearing. Suuuuuck my fuckin nuts. I swear because it adds emphasis and character to my speaking. Especially over the internet , I feel as though I express how I truly talk pretty well through text / typing. I’ve had people video chat with me on Skype and they’re always shocked to the core that I actually swear as much as I type if not more , including the fact that I “sound just like they imagined”. I’m a walking meme brother *hulk hogan voice*

 

I love saying gross shit and making people feel awkward. I’m awkward , so making other people feel awkward makes me feel *less* awkward and it turns into a never ending cycle. If I’m in a playful argument, I’ll happily tell someone to eat my asshole. My brother is a perfect example , because he and I get into quite a few playful fights.. not even playful fights half the time. We just annoy each other on purpose till one of us has a mental breakdown and I start screaming at him to shut up or more gross stuff like “eat my pussy from the back disrespectfully.”

 

On top of that ^ , just anyone in general that tries to tell me what to do that hasn’t earned my respect…. I’m more than likely going to just tell you to eat my ass. The toxic caregivers that try to command you to do shit three sentences into talking to you…. Yeah they RRRRREEEALLY don’t like my rude ass ^-^ Literally suck your own dick and choke on your nut. I hope it comes out your nose when you’re choking.

 

Honestly, I love being a tomboy and being “gross” as some people see it. If someone accepts me how I truly am without having to dumb down parts of me to please them …. I’ll stick around and have your back. Did any of this even make sense to you guys , or am I just talking to the void with my coffee in hand ?

Edited September 6, 2021 by DaddysMonkey

[DaddysMonkey]

I mean, I've literally been spitting shards of ice from my coffee at Mommy as she's whooping my ass at Mario Kart all morning, soooooo does that count?

Absolutely adorable , and absolutely counts !

[Guest Teasing Tink]

Howdy

 

I agree with you. I believe the soul has both masculine and feminine aspects. You know, ying and yang. 

 

I'm pretty much your stereotypical girly girl or I at least present this way on the outside. I love pink, I love sparkly things, bright and pastel colors. I prefer my hair to be long. Even when I was little, I refused to wear pants until the age of seven. I would only wear dresses. My older sister being more of a tomboy at the time, told me she would wear a dress for a day if I put on pants (she hated dresses). I refused lol. 

 

I'm a Brat through and through though, so I'm not really the type of little or submissive that is soft and readily obedient. I like to push my Daddy's buttons to get a rise out of him. I also have a dominant streak but I guess a Brat is a more dominant little anyway. My favorite type of video games involve pvp. I guess it's not so much about killing stuff for me, but working as a team to accomplish a common objective which I guess is more feminine. Though my aggressive side also enjoys the "owning" and winning. Not to an egotistical level. There's always room for improvement.

 

There's nothing I hide from my Daddy that I think is too gross. I'm pretty shameless about that stuff and I love that he embraces and loves all of me. I'm very much the take me or leave me type. When I was single, it was my strategy to basically be TMI from the start to weed out people. Like, here's all my baggage, the worst thing I've ever done, my worst qualities. What I value, what I don't. Take me or leave me. I have no room for pretense. I believe in transparency in relationships. I'm not interested in someone just liking me for some well manicured mask I wear sometimes out of necessity or to put the general public at ease. When it comes to intimate relationship, you can't have true intimacy without being vulnerable and transparent. So in that sense, I am shameless. My social anxiety/shyness prevents me from being totally transparent with everyone else. Especially if they're not going to understand. I also don't like making the general public uncomfortable unless it's something stupid like toilet talk. Like, if I say "I have to go to the toilet" rather than the "bathroom" my mom and sister will be all "TMI" and I will just be like "I didn't realize it was a secret that humans use the toilet." My mom laughed. I also have no qualms about saying so and so is pooping. Maybe it's my more little side because that's how kids talk ("I have to go poopy or pee pee!" lol Human behavior is so funny. Now I sound like Larry David going on a rant about stupid social rules. I digress.

 

I pick my nose and eat my boogers too. I thought everyone secretly picked their nose lol. I'm not really much of a germaphobe. I think not exposing yourself to germs makes you more sensitive to them anyway. I never get sick anymore, so it definitely isn't making me sick lol. I remember when I was a kid, the ultimate insult you could give someone was "they pick their nose!!!" And I felt all this internalized shame over it at the time because I knew I did it in private lol. Now in hindsight, it's just funny thinking about the things humans do just to be socially accepted.

 

I also used to take pictures of my poop and send them to my Daddy because I thought it was funny. And he would do the same because there are no boundaries like that between us lol. I don't find it gross for some reason. Maybe because I just see it as a natural human thing. I also don't find my own body odor offensive or any of my odors. My Daddy loves my natural body odor and finds it a turn on though he's actually very sensitive to smells in general. One thing he is grossed out about is dirty socks (not super filthy, just gently/mildly due to them being on the floor). So I like to tease/torture him by trying to put my sock in his mouth and we play wrestle doing that. It cracks me up. He is a bit of a germaphobe but when you are turned on, the things you would normally be grossed out by go out the window.

 

I guess I have a pretty high gross threshold when it comes to natural bodily fluids. Where I draw the line is gore porn in Horror movies which I just find dehumanizing. I know it's not real, but it *feels* real and I imagine it happening to me or the person and it's just very traumatic for me. Also, never make me clean a dirty fridge *pukes.* There are some things in this world which are truly too gross for words lol. I have pets, so cleaning up poop isn't really something I'm grossed out by. Also, don't make me sit through an episode of Ren & Stimpy. The art style is gross, I'm sorry lol. And dirty band-aids. I had such a band-aid phobia when I was a kid as well as an American cheese phobia. Why do I find them so gross? Maybe the texture. But they would make me cringe so hard. Okay, maybe my gross threshold isn't as high as I thought lol.

 

I also thought everyone swore. At least when they're in adult mode. Come to think of it, I don't think I generally swear when I'm in little mode. But it can be very satisfying to swear when I'm trying to be funny or venting for added emphasis. I think many INFJ's have a more crude side to them (perhaps more hidden) because our shadow type is ESTP (same cognitive functions, just in reverse). 

 

There seems to be a lot of Caregivers who don't like or want a Brat. I say to each their own and that's fine, but don't try hitting on me if you're not into Brats because that's pretty much the main label I define myself by in BDSM lol. I also find it funny when a "Daddy" claims he's into Brats but then expects immediate submission. Kind of makes me think they don't understand the whole concept of a Brat lol. Like, fuck off. Submission is earned. My Daddy has been the only one I found worthy of my submission. When I was single, I liked seeing how ridiculous the conversations would get. It amused me. Dunno why them telling me to give them what they want would suddenly change my mind. Like omg, I'm SO attracted to you now that you were such an asshole about it! Is this what some people define as dominance? I just find it narcissistic as hell. If you can't stay calm, you're just showing you're not a very dominant person, in my opinion. 

 

All right, that's enough of me babbling/ranting. Have a lovely gross day. 

[LeftyGuitar]

Well I'm not sure of this counts. I've always said to potential mommies that they can play dress-up with me. Its mostly so a mommy can have some fun and for the bonding experience.

Edited September 8, 2021 by LeftyGuitar

[Guest LittleElizabethBun]

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