Introducing My Little to Friends

[GingerGent85]

Hi all!

 

I'm a relatively new daddy dom (about 1 year). My little and I live the life when we can but she is also my partner outside of the dynamic. Last night she told me that her little side is interested in meeting one of my best friends. She's met this person outside of little space a few times.

 

My friend is a very open and accepting person and they know my partner is also my little, but has never met her in little space. I told my friend about this today but said I'd like to give it more thought because it's the first time it's come up, and made sure she didn't feel obligated. My friend also wants some time to think about it. She's been involved in the kink community but has never met a little.

 

Any suggestions on how to approach this? Set up? Anything to look out for or consider?

 

Thanks!

[♡ マリィ ♡]

Hi, Ginger!

 

Firstly, I think it's really cool that your little is so comfortable with wanting to meet your friend, and that your friend actually understands and accepts what a little is; that's a huge plus! It's always weird and scary when you start being more open about being little to people in your daily life, and it's really good to hear that your friend is accommodating and receptive to the idea of seeing the other side of her!

 

Honestly, my advice would be to not make it a very big deal, because it isn't one. What you should really be asking yourself is, "how can I keep it safe and comfortable for everyone"?

 

As for an introductory setting, why not arrange a "play date" with your friend for your little girl, and maybe start from there. What does your little girl like to do? Play with toys, color, paint? Your friend could engage with her that way, I always find it a lot easier to be small around people who are interacting with me in that way from the beginning! Spread out some snacks, put something cute on the TV and leave your friend and your little with some toys or activities!

 

Also, this is just a question for my own curiosity, but how did you come to tell your friend about your dynamic? Has she ever seen you act as Daddy before, and are you nervous~? I hope you're not, you sound really considerate and sweet and I hope you all have a fun time! ♡

- Usako

[GingerGent85]

Hi Usako!

 

Thanks for your message! And sorry I didn't get back to you sooner.

 

I appreciate your advice - just wanted to make sure I'm thinking things through. I definitely want everyone to feel comfortable and happy!

 

I am *a little bit* nervous about acting as Daddy around her, but ultimately it's about caring for my little Sparkplug, so it's not a big deal.

 

How I told my friend about our dynamic - I'll preface this by saying the way I told her wouldn't work for everyone. She's been one of my best friends for almost 20 years so there's already a lot of trust, understanding, and love there. So, we were just talking over drinks about different kinks and experiences and I thought it would be a good time to tell her. Just straight up. And her reaction was nothing but accepting. She said it was cute and awesome and glad we found what tickles our hearts and bodies (paraphrasing ). All about celebrating whatever honest and consenting adults want to do.

 

I was never really worried about her reaction, but I did follow up with her later before I told her my little wanted to meet her. Because she's never met a little before I told her what her little personality is like, what she likes to do, her regression range, etc, so she'd have an idea of what to expect. Now she's doing a bit of research herself before we set something up.

 

And that's it! Thanks again, and I hope you have a wonderful day!