How to make Rules and Rewards for my Princess. (And advices too)

[Grayy]

I'm quite new to being a daddy and I'm still learning everyday. I'll need help with rules and Rewards for my little. Also any advice you'll have for me. Thank you.

[Istrawberry]

Hello,

 

 

rules and rewards are something that can't be generalised because they depend very much on the DD/CG/MD and the little/middle/etc.  There is a topic in under "Little Space" where some littles and dominants shared their rules (sometimes also punishments and rewards) and that could be a good place to finding ideas. I would reccommend to talk with your little if there are some things they would like as a rule and figure out the rules and rewards in a discussion with you partner. Some littles might like having more very specific rules, some like just having a handful generla ones, some couples don't have any... There's no one rule set that fits everyone.

 

As for rewards, it could be something your little enjoys like sweets, activities your little likes to do (like watching a movie of their choice or playing a game or something), small things like a colloring book or new pencils, stuffies.... everything your little likes, I guess.

[Grayy]

Thank you. I'll keep this in mind.

[Vampiress]

The best advice I have is don't make rules just to make rules. Make sure they have a clear purpose and check in with your little/middle regularly enough to make sure they feel the rules are helpful and relevant to their life and the dynamic. Nothing worse than a set of bad rules that just make the little/middle feel resentful and unhappy. Try to think of rules together that will add a positive structure and goals to their life and ways to hold them accountable. Self-care rules are great!

[Sweetlilbabygirlygirl]

Rules help a lot! My rules are good rules!

[LeeLee1]

Rules only work if you both want them. Some rules can make you feel like your being extra good .some are sexy .and some are horrid and you don’t wanna do them,remember a lot of littles don’t even have rules .