DDLG PROTOCOLS

[DaddyS2021]

I wonder if anybody knows where the DDLG PROTOCOLS can be located for someone that is new to the DDLG Life Style or are these DDLG PROTOCOLS set between Little and Daddy

[(not) Narancia]

I don't know about any PROTOCOLS you're talking about, but I assume you're referring to rules between a cg and their little. If you Google something among the lines of "ddlg rules" you'll find plenty of suggestions you can take into account.

 

With that being said, rules aren't what make a ddlg relationship. That's between you and your partner(s). I personally don't really enjoy enforcing rules and would view them more as guidelines, while others are much stricter and prefer a set structure and value obedience and what not.

 

Find out what works for you!

[DaddyS2021]

I was informed that there are protocols that must be followed within the DDLG Lifestyle

[Little kaiya]

DDlg, like many things, is what the people involved make of it. There are tons of different types of Daddys and little. Follow your heart, listen to your little and don't worry about anyone that tell you it has to be done a certain way.

[DaddysMonkey]

If someone is trying to tell you there are actual protocols everyone must follow in this community, find someone else for advice. If some random daddy tried to tell me “well these are the protocols so you must follow them” , they can suck my asshole. Like above stated , “protocols” are between partners , not everyone in the community.

 

You’re probably going to get the same answer from everyone who replies unless you decide to explain a little bit more than you have. Did they say what the protocols were ? Is this person some random joe blow on the internet or someone you vetted as being actually knowledgeable in this community ? Have you done your OWN research ? Google is pretty easy to use , as well as the forum. It’s usually better to do your own research especially within a community of long time members where you can get advice from veterans in the lifestyle.

 

My opinion ? Protocols can fuck off , nobody is telling me what to do unless the Three F’s are involved. Do you feed , fuck , or finance me ? No ? Then fuck off with protocols. (Not telling YOU to fuck off , just the idea that people give vague advice like that and confuse new people in the community).

[shadowrider]

As stated above there are no set protocols one must follow in the lifestyle.

The only thing I would consider protocols are also rules on the forum and just common sense in the community.

• Don't use pet names with anyone unless you have been granted that privilege.
• Don't try to be someone's Dom/Domme/CG, lg/lb, or anything else without actually being in some sort of consensual relationship with them.
• Everything should follow the basic rules of SSC, Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

There are no hard fast rules as in the traditional BDSM world.

[DaddyS2021]

For example your in a fb page and you put a post up saying that if any littles feel lonely and they need a chat or advice feel free to message me. I could be your unkiewolfie or Guardian If you wanted me to be.

 

This page is for littles that have no daddies or mommies and is an adoption page for littles

[Satan]

For example your in a fb page and you put a post up saying that if any littles feel lonely and they need a chat or advice feel free to message me. I could be your unkiewolfie or Guardian If you wanted me to be.

This page is for littles that have no daddies or mommies and is an adoption page for littles

It sounds to me like you are looking to make a personal ad in the personal section found here sfw https://www.ddlgforum.com/forum/6-personals/

 

The forum is not a free for all buffet for Dom / caregivers to daddy every sub. As stated above that's actually against the forums rules.

If you were looking for a partner (s) , you can post a personal ad.

 

You should also probably check out the sites rules here sfw https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33419-community-rules-and-guidelines/

Edited August 11, 2021 by Satan

[DaddyS2021]

No there was no personal ad being made at all

[SmolAetherr]

I was informed that there are protocols that must be followed within the DDLG Lifestyle

 

im sorry to say but you were misinformed, ddlg isnt something you must "fit" into its a lifestyle or kink we all have our own take on and how we like to do it, there is no "rulebook" on how these things work if you are looking for protocols there should be information online about them but they are more for master/slave dynamics

 

i say that as someone interested in that kink on top of ddlg, some would say ddlg is a lighter form o master/slave but not even that is fully accurate

 

long and short of it is there is nothing you "must" follow to be considered in the ddlg or bdsm community just do what makes you happy and dont be afraid to steal ideas from other people and explore yourself 

Edited August 11, 2021 by Aetherr

[(not) Narancia]

If someone is trying to tell you there are actual protocols everyone must follow in this community, find someone else for advice. If some random daddy tried to tell me “well these are the protocols so you must follow them” , they can suck my asshole. Like above stated , “protocols” are between partners , not everyone in the community.

You’re probably going to get the same answer from everyone who replies unless you decide to explain a little bit more than you have. Did they say what the protocols were ? Is this person some random joe blow on the internet or someone you vetted as being actually knowledgeable in this community ? Have you done your OWN research ? Google is pretty easy to use , as well as the forum. It’s usually better to do your own research especially within a community of long time members where you can get advice from veterans in the lifestyle.

My opinion ? Protocols can fuck off , nobody is telling me what to do unless the Three F’s are involved. Do you feed , fuck , or finance me ? No ? Then fuck off with protocols. (Not telling YOU to fuck off , just the idea that people give vague advice like that and confuse new people in the community).

Can you just like not be funny as fuck for one second in your life??!? Jesus christ the 3 F's rule got me ROLLING

[DerbyNerd]

For example your in a fb page and you put a post up saying that if any littles feel lonely and they need a chat or advice feel free to message me. I could be your unkiewolfie or Guardian If you wanted me to be.

 

This page is for littles that have no daddies or mommies and is an adoption page for littles

Based on the idea that this FB page is an "adoption" for littles then you are essentially writing a personal ad by posting there offering to be their uncle or guardian. I think the thing to consider is that if you get any replies you need to follow SSC, keep EVERY little informed if there are others, don't use honorifics or demand that they do until you have permission, set clear boundaries for the relationship and make sure you are on the same page about what you both want before starting anything.